Eclypse Posted November 28, 2010 Posted November 28, 2010 My girlfriend tends to not really communicate with me when we don't see each other. Days can fo by without a single text from her and she barely ever replies to me to "save credit." her text responses are pretty bare usually a few words only. She says she'll go online to talk at a specific time to talk and then doesn't and doesn't seem bothered that I get upset by it. Now I know why she forgets to go online. Most of her spare time is spent playing xbox. I know how time can fly when you're playing games but I still stay logged in on messenger and check it often to see if she's on. It's like I'm competing for affection against a machine. She says she just never knows what to write in texts but I do wish shed bother replying sometimes, particularly if it's an important question I'm asking her. She also said she never misses me when we can't see each other since she knows we'll see each other soon. I miss her every day We used to lie on the bed and just have hot kissing sessions for ages. She doesn't want to do that anymore. She said it's more of a thing you do when you are in a new relationship and there's no real point anymore. She talks about marriage (already planned the house etc everything) but i think just lying in bed kissing is very fun always. She hates drinking and I've never seen her drink. The most she says she's ever had was a glass of wine at new years. But last night she goes to a party (I was working late so I couldn't go unfortunately) and she had quite a bit of alcohol to drink, mainly from the punch. It kind of irked me that she's so against drinking and doesn't like when I do it but then goes and gets fairly drunk (something she never ever did before) as soon as she goes somewhere alone, but always refuses with a face when I offer some to her. Wow I just realized I've been ranting. I'm not quite sure what to do. I've talked to her about how I feel and she insists nothing is wrong.
make me believe Posted November 28, 2010 Posted November 28, 2010 I've talked to her about how I feel and she insists nothing is wrong. Ok, so you know that she isn't going to change her behavior and isn't interested in working on things that you see as problematic. IMO, that's all you need to know. Now you just need to decide if you can accept her, and this relationship, AS IT IS RIGHT NOW. If nothing changed, would you be happy? It certainly doesn't sound like it. I think you need to be with a girl who is willing to meet your needs (wanting a few texts is not unreasonable!). Your current GF has basically told you to your face that she isn't. Oh and btw....she sounds like a nightmare to be married to!! Making out is now only reserved for 'new' relationships? How sad! You should consider yourself lucky that her true colors came out now rather than after a ring is on her finger.
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