KraftDinner Posted November 28, 2010 Posted November 28, 2010 I went to a party last night thrown by my boyfriend's friends. I had fun, and then we got a 'saferide' home -- meaning someone comes and drives my boyfriend's car home with us in it (it's a great alternative to taking a cab-- this way his car isn't left at the friend's place). Anyway, I woke up this morning (I drank a LOT last night) and my boyfriend wasn't here. I called his cell because I have little recollection of last night (although I do remember the 'saferide') and he answered and said he was at his friend's place (this is a different friend -- one who lives near his place, and he and I don't live together). I know he is where he says he is, I'm not worried he's with a girl or anything, but it's weird that he didn't stay with me. I called him back after the initial call to tell him I wish he was here with me. And he got mad for waking him up again... it's odd for him not to spend a weekend at my place. He was clearly still intoxicated and said, "You are angering me now. Why do you keep waking me up?" I am not going to get into a war of words with a drunk person so I let that go and hung up. But... "angering" him? What a douche. Seriously... normally he'd stay with me, he doesn't, I call him to ask why he isn't here and I'm "angering" him? Am I wrong here? He's being douchey, right?
tinktronik Posted November 28, 2010 Posted November 28, 2010 You guys need to sober up completely and then discuss this; maybe this afternoon. He may have just wandered over to his friend's house b/c he was inebriated.
ConstantCraving Posted November 28, 2010 Posted November 28, 2010 I went to a party last night thrown by my boyfriend's friends. I had fun, and then we got a 'saferide' home -- meaning someone comes and drives my boyfriend's car home with us in it (it's a great alternative to taking a cab-- this way his car isn't left at the friend's place). Anyway, I woke up this morning (I drank a LOT last night) and my boyfriend wasn't here. I called his cell because I have little recollection of last night (although I do remember the 'saferide') and he answered and said he was at his friend's place (this is a different friend -- one who lives near his place, and he and I don't live together). I know he is where he says he is, I'm not worried he's with a girl or anything, but it's weird that he didn't stay with me. I called him back after the initial call to tell him I wish he was here with me. And he got mad for waking him up again... it's odd for him not to spend a weekend at my place. He was clearly still intoxicated and said, "You are angering me now. Why do you keep waking me up?" I am not going to get into a war of words with a drunk person so I let that go and hung up. But... "angering" him? What a douche. Seriously... normally he'd stay with me, he doesn't, I call him to ask why he isn't here and I'm "angering" him? Am I wrong here? He's being douchey, right? He has a rotten hangover, he's trying to sleep it off and he can't do that because you insist on repeatedly waking him up. I would be "angered" too. I'd be SAVAGELY ticked off.
make me believe Posted November 28, 2010 Posted November 28, 2010 I'd be kinda weirded out that he apparently went home with you and then left again to go to a different friend's house while you were probably passed out drunk, but I don't think his reaction when you called him in the morning was douchey. He didn't yell at you or snap at you or anything. He just said that he was annoyed that you kept calling & waking him up! I would have been annoyed too if I was trying to sleep off a hangover & my BF kept calling me. After the initial phonecall, you should have waited until he was awake & sober before trying to talk about the night before. The first phonecall was understandable since you didn't know where he was, but the second was unnecessary.
SincereOnlineGuy Posted November 28, 2010 Posted November 28, 2010 I went to a party last night thrown by my boyfriend's friends. I had fun, and then we got a 'saferide' home -- meaning someone comes and drives my boyfriend's car home with us in it (it's a great alternative to taking a cab-- this way his car isn't left at the friend's place). OK, your boyfriend's car isn't left at "the friend's place"... Is it instead left at "Someone's" place ???
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