roxielago Posted November 28, 2010 Posted November 28, 2010 My fieance came home at four in the morning last night. He is a night owl and is always up very late, at home or out and about. I don't think it's appropriate for him to stay out that late and have had many arguments about the topic. We have come to an understanding that if he does stay out later than two, to call or text me. He did neither last night! I don't know what to do about the situation.
fltc Posted November 28, 2010 Posted November 28, 2010 Obviously you have NOT 'come to an understanding', you need to think about continuing an engagement to someone you can't trust.
FanFan Posted November 28, 2010 Posted November 28, 2010 My fieance came home at four in the morning last night. He is a night owl and is always up very late, at home or out and about. I don't think it's appropriate for him to stay out that late and have had many arguments about the topic. We have come to an understanding that if he does stay out later than two, to call or text me. He did neither last night! I don't know what to do about the situation. Some women today are so stupid. In your case, more than one ways.
emmalee Posted November 29, 2010 Posted November 29, 2010 What the hell is he even doing out that late? On a regular basis? Seriously think about your relationship before marrying this guy
lonelyandfrustrated Posted November 29, 2010 Posted November 29, 2010 What you do about the situation is dump him. At the very least, break the engagement, he's not marriage material. Why aren't you out with him? How did a homebody like you hook up with a party boy anyway?
jimrich Posted December 2, 2010 Posted December 2, 2010 We have come to an understanding ... Obviously not! You could put your foot down and set a firmmer boundary! I don't know what to do about the situation. ... Counseling, relationship books, google: relationships and learn how to get what you want in the relationship without a big fight. or MOVE ON - since you're not married!
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