Ante Posted November 28, 2010 Posted November 28, 2010 where should i start...ok well i was with my x-girlfriend for 1 and half years which is quite a long time considering she was my 1st real gf and i was her 1st real bf. everything was great and ran smoothly..the biggest problem in our relationship was that i was ov full croatian blood and she was 3/4 serbian and 1/4 croatian becoz her dad was half. this didnt arise to be much ov a problem at the start but then it slowly started to build up. Unfortunetly i can only blame myself becoz i should ov brought her home from day 1 and things would ov been much better and different instead i waited which i should ov not done...though my parents neva told me to not date her and not bring her ova and go 2 her house they neva said that...my mum was alright with i ]i just think it would ov taken the old man a bit more time to process..we had our usually arguments ova stupid things that were mended quite quickly...though as of this year start ov september we went on a little break so i could sort out my stuff with my parents and so that she could sort out her negativity with a few things... one nite i decided to go for a drive with a friend through the local town..one ov my x girlfriends, friends saw me driving and immediately txtd my x gf, she went berzerk started saying i dnt care about i dnt love her and that im moving on...i didnt kno wat to think or say i was angry..then the arguing started and in a couple ov days she broke it off with me...we were broken up for 5 days and next thing u kno i shes in a new relationship! i didnt think much ov it becoz i thought it was all bull**** to try get bak at me...but when a few ov my mates were asking wat was going and that she (sandra my x) was in a new relationship it really hit me and i basically lost the plot..all the stuff she use to say to me felt like a lie...she use to say i love u sooo much i cant imagine my life without u and that she wanted to get engaged even married at some point...i was tottally gutted and i started texting and calling her..i was soo angry and upset...then when i calmed down after a week or so..she called me to come to her work...she said she dosent kno if she can go bak with me becoz i havent done anything to prove to her how much i love her and wanted her bak...soo basically she said if u want me then fight for me...i chased her for nearly 2 months she lead me on...thinking we'd get back togther...she made a fake account on facebook to contact me through and we even talked on msn...even on webcam...the thing that kills me the most is that she said we will set a date to get back togther which she said was december the 1st... but while this was going on she kept saying she needs space i dnt understand how u can need space if ur withsome else...i was confused, hurt, emotional angry the works...the guy she is with now is ov serbian origin... one my friends thinks that my x wanted/needed something i couldnt give her and that apparently was that she now sees how she'll be accepted by his parents becoz they are serbian...also one ov her friends told me that my x said her new bf is really nice and is ready to settle down with a serbian girl...i was like wtf... during this peroid ov being led on..i bought her a ipod touch and a gold pendant with her name on it Sandra...which i dnt regret but it still hurts... november the 3rd was the last contact i had with her...she basically rippt my heart at the library in our univerisity... i kept telling her though this ordeal that if she came bak to me we would go straight to my place and i would tell me my parents this is more than serious now we really do love each other and u will accept it whether u like or not...but in saying so on november 3rd 2010 she told me she dosent want anything to do with my parents and that she is happy with how she is now and she really likes this new guy shes with...and that she sees me as a friend..i askt her if she loved me her response was a a slight shake ov the head as in no and that was the same respone when i asked if she still had feelings for me...the weeks prior to the final one she was saying she does love me but shes unsure if she wants to be with me and still needs space...well i have cut all contact with her and it hurts like hell...i think about her non-stop.. its been 18 days no conact and she has been with her new bf for 2 and a half months... i dnt kno what to do or think anymore..i.d do anything to get her back.. can things be mended? is there still hope? please i really would like some help as the stages i am at r pure anger and hatred... i am 22 and she is 18.. if that helps in any way...she was 1st first love and i was hers well i hope i was...i still think things can be mended i just feel like i keep hitting a brick wall please help if you can thank you... to add salt to the wound..i recently found out she is going to Bali with her 'new bf'... is all hope now really lost...i tried to re establish communication with her after 20 days ov no contact...she ignored my msg...wat can b done? if anything?
PegNosePete Posted November 28, 2010 Posted November 28, 2010 where should i start Well some paragraph breaks would be a good place. And try writing "of" instead of "ov", "to" instead of "2", "because" not "becoz", "never" instead of "neva". I realize English may not be your first language and I'm not trying to be the Grammar Police, it's just that not many people will read your post if they have to translate it from "txt speak" first. If you use proper paragraphs then you'll get a lot better responses. Sounds like your relationship is over dude. Time to move on.
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