9Lives Posted November 28, 2010 Posted November 28, 2010 What is the reason your boyfriend will not let you put the picture of you to together on your profile page? My girlfriend's man said she cant do it and she is very upset about it. I have no clue why he said no. he is with her and all but he told her not to do that. Whats the problem? Is he trying to hide something? I dont get it.
daphne Posted November 28, 2010 Posted November 28, 2010 Is he trying to hide something? Well, yes. He who has nothing to hide hides nothing.
sally4sara Posted November 28, 2010 Posted November 28, 2010 I only have one friend with an SO who asked them not to put up pics with them in it. It was because they think sites like Facebook and Myspace are retarded and don't have a page of their own or post pics of themselves so why would they want someone else doing it? If this guy HAS a facebook page and puts up pics of himself, do you notice a similarity in the pics? Are they all of himself with no one else in them? Are they not even of himself? Or are they similar to what your friend wanted to put up?
Author 9Lives Posted November 28, 2010 Author Posted November 28, 2010 He is smooth and kinda controlling at the same time. He is with her but he doesnt want her to put them on her profile picture. i think it is wierd.
Author 9Lives Posted November 28, 2010 Author Posted November 28, 2010 I only have one friend with an SO who asked them not to put up pics with them in it. It was because they think sites like Facebook and Myspace are retarded and don't have a page of their own or post pics of themselves so why would they want someone else doing it? If this guy HAS a facebook page and puts up pics of himself, do you notice a similarity in the pics? Are they all of himself with no one else in them? Are they not even of himself? Or are they similar to what your friend wanted to put up? Well he dont think it is silly cause he has a page too. he puts pictures of himself and of picture of things or whatever. She put a picture of her and his kids on her profile picture before but never a picture of her and him. I think something is up. Facebook talkes alot sometimes.
yah Posted November 28, 2010 Posted November 28, 2010 It could be a privacy issue. I used to tell people not to put pictures of me online. I've been stalked before. Of course, I can't really control everybody so I just untag it now. Is he OK with an untagged picture?
Author 9Lives Posted November 28, 2010 Author Posted November 28, 2010 It could be a privacy issue. I used to tell people not to put pictures of me online. I've been stalked before. Of course, I can't really control everybody so I just untag it now. Is he OK with an untagged picture? Well I think he just being slick myself. he is that kind of guy
whichwayisup Posted November 28, 2010 Posted November 28, 2010 Does his status say single or in a relationship? How long have they been a couple? Maybe he isn't 'there' yet and maybe he hasn't told all his friends and family that he is seeing someone. If it bothers her so much, she needs to sit down and ask him why he has issues about it.
Author 9Lives Posted November 28, 2010 Author Posted November 28, 2010 Does his status say single or in a relationship? How long have they been a couple? Maybe he isn't 'there' yet and maybe he hasn't told all his friends and family that he is seeing someone. If it bothers her so much, she needs to sit down and ask him why he has issues about it. His status does not show. they been together for 2 years. She has been around his family and friends She talked to him about it and he told her just dont do it. Whichway, why would he let her put pictures of his kids with her but not him?
whichwayisup Posted November 28, 2010 Posted November 28, 2010 Hmm....Makes you think, doesn't it. Is he divorced? Separated? Maybe the ex is still abit in the picture? "Just don't do it" is NOT a reason. She needs to ask him again and tell him how it makes her feel.
TiredOfItAll2010 Posted November 28, 2010 Posted November 28, 2010 Sounds to me like something's up and very fishy. Anyone that has been in a relationship for 2 years with that kind of a relationship history (and has nothing to hide) should have no problem showing off their girlfriend. The fact that he's being evasive about it doesn't help matters either. She needs to get to the bottom of this ASAP.
Author 9Lives Posted November 28, 2010 Author Posted November 28, 2010 Hmm....Makes you think, doesn't it. Is he divorced? Separated? Maybe the ex is still abit in the picture? "Just don't do it" is NOT a reason. She needs to ask him again and tell him how it makes her feel. He is not married. I been trying to get her a answer but truthful, I cant find one...lol
Author 9Lives Posted November 28, 2010 Author Posted November 28, 2010 Sounds to me like something's up and very fishy. Anyone that has been in a relationship for 2 years with that kind of a relationship history (and has nothing to hide) should have no problem showing off their girlfriend. The fact that he's being evasive about it doesn't help matters either. She needs to get to the bottom of this ASAP. She has pictures of them together on her picture pages but not on that profile. I just dont see what the big deal is.
xpaperxcutx Posted November 28, 2010 Posted November 28, 2010 He is smooth and kinda controlling at the same time. Oh yeah, definitely has issues.
sally4sara Posted November 28, 2010 Posted November 28, 2010 I'd like to point out that the friend I mentioned still puts up whatever pics she wants whether he is on them or not. He'd prefer she didn't but doesn't freak out over it. If it were for a really good reason that he not have pics of himself up he wouldn't let himself be photographed or put any up on his own page. If your friend wants them up, she should do it anyway. They are her pictures and if that's all it takes for this guy to chuck 2 years she might as well find out now.
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