wondergirl_6 Posted November 27, 2010 Posted November 27, 2010 So the guy I've had 3 long dates with called earlier this week, we were supposed to be on the 4th date (he asked at the end of date 3) the time he called but he didn't text me that morning to arrange it as he said. He said on the phone extremely nervously that he liked me but he thought he should let me know he's seeing someone else. I was confused by his sudden speech and told him I didn't mind him seeing someone else at this stage, he then said we could meet next week if I really didn't mind. Later I rethought the whole thing and wondered if I misunderstood him, so I texted him and said that if he actually meant to let me down, it could be fine for me although I'd like to see him again. He replied saying he wanted to see me again too but he's confused now and "just needed a couple of days to clear his head". Now 5 days past, since he didn't contact me between dates before, I didn't expect him to contact me in the past 5 days. I also think I should give him the time to clear his head. I know he's work today (Sat) and tomorrow, but should I just drop this completely by now? I'm also seeing someone else now, but kind of still thinking of this guy. Sigh!
lovebitme Posted November 28, 2010 Posted November 28, 2010 Consider him gone. Go date the other guy you just met! If the first one comes back I'd give him another chance if you wish. Nothing wrong with a guy clearing his head for awhile and he was honest with you. His honestly should be worth something.
FL Lady Posted November 28, 2010 Posted November 28, 2010 Strike three and he's out. Strikes include good intentions. So many nice guys out there.
whichwayisup Posted November 28, 2010 Posted November 28, 2010 Forget about him. He's seeing someone else, that is a fact. 5 days and nothing? If he calls you in a week or two, saying thanks for giving me time to figure stuff out, would you like to go out again, then see how you feel, if you want to continue to get to know him. Until then, consider him a past.
xpaperxcutx Posted November 28, 2010 Posted November 28, 2010 Yep, drop it. Sounds like he rather date the other " girl" than politely decline you. There's no problem with multidating, but the guy needs to man up about breaking off dates rather than being a " chicken" and expecting to get the point.
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