doomage Posted November 27, 2010 Posted November 27, 2010 Hey ladies and gents, well theres something i need help with. In the summer i was dating this girl i met at a house party, she gave me a bj like an ahour after meeting her and i was still curious to get to know her so we began dating a week later, nothin exclusive, just dating to get to know eachother and stuff, but about three weeks into it i rushed it and wanted to be with her officially, idk why it was a dumb decision and that changed the course of the relationship or pseudo relationship forever, later on she told me she didnt want to be in one because she's been single way to long and she has school and all this other crap, so i said cool we can still date no pressure but then she starts being standoffish, and plus she's a party girl, goes to raves likes to drink and has friends that do the same, i on the other hand don't need to do that stuff to have fun even though i do go to clubs sometimes but don't drink, though sometimes i will but not drunk. Well one day i asked her to meet me and we hadn't seen eachother in a week because of her, then when we met up i tried to kiss her as usual and a hug and she turned her cheek, so i felt i was losing her and that day it ended pretty much, we agreed to be friends but then i kept texting her to hang out and she would say "well you gotta hang with my friends too" and i agreed but she always flaked, then a couple weeks later after me asking her one more time to hang out she said "i dont like you leave me alone" i did for awhile then texted her again, and also i have her japanese book so she never aks me how im doin but once in a while shell say "still got my japanese book?" but everytime i wanna give it to her she says "idk gotta check my schedule" like if she's oh so busy. anyway i still have her on myspace and facebook and i can't get over her we broke up in july and i try to text and message her and she ignores it so i keep opening the wound for myself, pining for her, so should i delete her from everything like phone, facebook and myspace? so i can get over her?
bl22 Posted November 27, 2010 Posted November 27, 2010 Hey ladies and gents, well theres something i need help with. In the summer i was dating this girl i met at a house party, she gave me a bj like an ahour after meeting her That kinda sums it up. You cant trust someone who'd do that. Yes delete her
Samu Posted November 28, 2010 Posted November 28, 2010 so should i delete her from everything like phone, facebook and myspace? so i can get over her? Delete her ass and go find a nice girl to spend your time with
Art_Critic Posted November 28, 2010 Posted November 28, 2010 "i dont like you leave me alone" and you have to ask if you should delete her from your FB.. dude........ Unfriend her now...........
cerridwen Posted November 28, 2010 Posted November 28, 2010 "i kept texting her to hang out and she would say "well you gotta hang with my friends too" and i agreed but she always flaked, then a couple weeks later after me asking her one more time to hang out she said "i dont like you leave me alone" Ouch. This is brutal. She's not hinting or sending mixed messages, she is outright telling you to get out of her life. Delete her from everything.
Username37 Posted November 28, 2010 Posted November 28, 2010 Seems like we're getting a lot of topics about FB Yeah, delete it. Find some one better
valpre Posted November 28, 2010 Posted November 28, 2010 Yes, DELETE!!. You'll start to feel better as soon as you do.
hART Posted November 28, 2010 Posted November 28, 2010 Yes, delete her. A man's asthma got worse after spying on his ex on facebook.
Author doomage Posted November 28, 2010 Author Posted November 28, 2010 i logged onto facebook right now and she had all these new pictures uploaded and some tagged of her from her relatives photo album and she looks even hotter in them, and i feel like im missing something, all the feelins and stuff come back.
Art_Critic Posted November 29, 2010 Posted November 29, 2010 I take it you didn't listen to one person on this thread.. Self Defeating behavior always hurts..
Username37 Posted November 29, 2010 Posted November 29, 2010 i logged onto facebook right now and she had all these new pictures uploaded and some tagged of her from her relatives photo album and she looks even hotter in them, and i feel like im missing something, all the feelins and stuff come back. I know that feeling. My ex got hotter too. Dude, get away from FB.
Author doomage Posted November 29, 2010 Author Posted November 29, 2010 I'm a good natured person and i didn't want to burn any bridges with her i was still trying to keep it cool but she ignores me and for some reason whenever a situation like this arises i have a hard time removing people from my life cuz it's like im scared if i delete them what if i dont see them ever again? what if this what if that and all that nonsensical stuff. the bottom line is that she isn't the only pretty face in the world but i just liked my time with her.
BenThereDunThat Posted November 29, 2010 Posted November 29, 2010 I'm a good natured person and i didn't want to burn any bridges with her i was still trying to keep it cool but she ignores me and for some reason whenever a situation like this arises i have a hard time removing people from my life cuz it's like im scared if i delete them what if i dont see them ever again? what if this what if that and all that nonsensical stuff. the bottom line is that she isn't the only pretty face in the world but i just liked my time with her. You said it. She isn't the only pretty face in the world. You enjoyed your time with her, she's not interested for whatever reason, smile at the memory and move on. You'll have another girl to fret over sooner than you think. Oh yeah - and for god's sake delete her already!!!
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