Chris89 Posted November 27, 2010 Posted November 27, 2010 (edited) I wont go into details, its not necessary anymore, as Ive accepted the situation the way it is right now. I just cant go and ask my ex this I broke up with my ex a year ago, cause of personal issues. We remained in contact, cause we'd been best friends since forever. She was hurt, very hurt. Later that year we hooked up a couple of times. But this summer She finally got over me and the break-up. Went to work for the summer and met this guy, they hit it off - you know face to face daily. I didn't see her until the end of the summer, when she came over to watch a ballgame on TV (yes the girl]). We both felt kind of sad when she left - at the moment I didnt know, she had started to get romantic feelings for the other guy. So I spoke my mind - told her I really missed her as a girl and maybe we could give us a shot again. She thought about it - and then came to be with me, telling the other guy she cant date him right now. But our old problems resurfaced within two months, cause i let myself go again - feeling safe etc - and she broke up with me. A Week later the other guy asked her out, they went and now they've been together for a lil more than a month. My question is: what do you say this is or what was my position in this situation?(i was the rebound of some twisted kind?).All opinions welcome - im the sort of guy who wants to figure everything out in order to move on and take the lesson with me. Edited November 27, 2010 by Chris89
9Lives Posted November 27, 2010 Posted November 27, 2010 what was the problem that resurfaced? We need to know.
Author Chris89 Posted November 27, 2010 Author Posted November 27, 2010 The problem in general terms - too much partying. And you know the consequences, drunk dialling and moping, when someone wouldnt talk with you at 2 am. Took the hint - not a single drop since the break up. But i dont really like advertising this, because no else seems to be jumping around shouting "Hey, I act like a normal person"
9Lives Posted November 27, 2010 Posted November 27, 2010 The problem in general terms - too much partying. And you know the consequences, drunk dialling and moping, when someone wouldnt talk with you at 2 am. Took the hint - not a single drop since the break up. But i dont really like advertising this, because no else seems to be jumping around shouting "Hey, I act like a normal person" Who was doing too much partying?
Author Chris89 Posted November 27, 2010 Author Posted November 27, 2010 I was doing the excessive partying - well the excessive drinking.
9Lives Posted November 28, 2010 Posted November 28, 2010 I was doing the excessive partying - well the excessive drinking. so You are the problem. so basically you keep doing the same thing and expecting a different result.
Author Chris89 Posted November 28, 2010 Author Posted November 28, 2010 was the problem*. I certainly am not a problem anymore, as she is with another guy. But in general you're right - i was doing the same thing, hoping for a different result.
Fufu Posted November 28, 2010 Posted November 28, 2010 Chris89: You have to let her go... even though yes it's not going to be easy. Let her go.. if you guys are menat to be together, you guys will. Move forward in life.
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