9Lives Posted November 27, 2010 Posted November 27, 2010 My ex and I broke up Aug 19th for good. Long on and off relationship that really left me very hurt. He had been texting me after that day to say hi and check on me..blah blah blah. He texted a couple of times until October when i finally answered and let him know I was still hurt. He then went silent which piss me off cause he was texting until I said that. So we got into it and I told him I was done with his childish bs and good bye. He respond THEN with telling me all I had to say was I was fine and thats it. he told me I would never hear from him anymore and I told him he would never hear from me either. That was that. So anyway, the holidays was great! I enjoy my family and friends. But I found myself thinking about him. I didnt make any moves or anything but he was just on my mind. I am much better than I use to be. I dreamed I saw him in a restaurant and he stop and looked at me then smiled. That was it. He is a jerk! I wish I didnt still care about him
Capital P Posted November 27, 2010 Posted November 27, 2010 Its taking you a long time to get over it because you were still keeping in contact with him and i guess hoping that he would change his mind and examining texts to see if he still cared. You know that isnt the case now, so get use to the pain and be aware that it only gets better. After a month or two you will just realise he was a scumbag anyway
Author 9Lives Posted November 27, 2010 Author Posted November 27, 2010 Its taking you a long time to get over it because you were still keeping in contact with him and i guess hoping that he would change his mind and examining texts to see if he still cared. You know that isnt the case now, so get use to the pain and be aware that it only gets better. After a month or two you will just realise he was a scumbag anyway yeah to know that he still cared would have been nice. I didnt like his contacting me cause it didnt mean anything. Just throwing me crumbs. I guess you are right. I expect him to care when he really doesnt. that hurts
reknown29 Posted November 27, 2010 Posted November 27, 2010 I sent my ex a happy thanksgiving text. she got right back saying hope to see you soon. She definitely cares and misses me. But she is dating other men and she carelessly dumped me and was very mean about it. My heart was ripped out by her. the fact that she cares and may get back with me does not cahnge the fact that she devastated me and didnt care or even acknowledge my pain. Its still about her and what she wants. In her head she may get back with me if the new guy(s) dont work out. My advice to both of us is to move on and dont take being dumped lightly. It is the WORST thing you can do to someone in a relationship. Worse than cheating, lying, petty fighting, etc. Its the ulitmate betrayal . A heart break is worse than any physical pain. I would have rather been stabbed by her... Im putting in every effort to move on. I need to practice what I preach here.
Author 9Lives Posted November 27, 2010 Author Posted November 27, 2010 I sent my ex a happy thanksgiving text. she got right back saying hope to see you soon. She definitely cares and misses me. But she is dating other men and she carelessly dumped me and was very mean about it. My heart was ripped out by her. the fact that she cares and may get back with me does not cahnge the fact that she devastated me and didnt care or even acknowledge my pain. Its still about her and what she wants. In her head she may get back with me if the new guy(s) dont work out. My advice to both of us is to move on and dont take being dumped lightly. It is the WORST thing you can do to someone in a relationship. Worse than cheating, lying, petty fighting, etc. Its the ulitmate betrayal . A heart break is worse than any physical pain. I would have rather been stabbed by her... Im putting in every effort to move on. I need to practice what I preach here. I know Im moving on. Cant help how I feel but I am nothing like I was before at all. Im so proud of myself. I still have moments but still doing better. Yeah being treated any kind of way is never to be taken lightly. It will pass for sure.
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