phineas Posted November 27, 2010 Posted November 27, 2010 Go with it, but honestly if you actually are in "friendzone" then you're staying there. I think girls group guys into "datable" and "not datable" and the second you enter the second group, your chances of entering the first group are almost nil. So from my standpoint I would "agree" with them, but if after a month nothing happened I'd decide how good a friend to be (a month may be too long tho!). Yep. Unless you do something spectacular. I for instance dropped 55lbs. Went from a 46 waist to a 34. 2xl to l in the shirt & have defined shoulders,chest muscles & sleeve stretching upper arms. Still got a little gut & love handles but i'm 39 in January so i'm actually in good shape for my age group. But the women apparently friend-zoneing me are top 10% for late 30's. The one's that constantly get hit on by the top 10% of men in that age bracket. I'm starting to believe "taking things slow" actually means "let's see if you can drop those last 15lbs because while I like you & am attracted to your personality & I know your not just looking for sex, I really want a man a little hotter"
Cee Posted November 28, 2010 Posted November 28, 2010 I would prefer to take things slow and build love over time. I don't have many men chasing me anymore, so I guess I want to savor the dating while I can. Sadly, I feel like I'm on a 3 date audition. If I don't wow them, I'm nexted. But I not the type who wows men, I grow on them like lichen or barnacles.
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