Lucky555 Posted November 27, 2010 Posted November 27, 2010 I post here about the vagueness of a guy who couldn't say what he is looking for. He had asked if we should set up a date to get together. We have great conversations but the last thing I would expect him to do is ask me to go over to his place late at night. He agrees to exclusivity but I want a relationship. So should I ask him straight up "are you looking for a relationship?" I know relationships develop but inviting me to go over at night is "booty call" this was not even planned i feel as though he must not care. I'm confused about this situation. I feel like if I like him but I don't want to be in it just for his convience. If this guy wanted a relationship wouldn't we be dong "bonding" things. I feel as though he may not have My interests at heart. He claims he is a good guy but asking me to go over at night is clearly for sex. I just don't feel like I am at that level of intimacy for him because were not bonding. Does something seem off to you all. I have known this guy awhile and it seems Like this is weird. I have not spent a lot of time with him to know exactly how he operates. I'm just Don't know how to approach this. I keep thinking maybe he is bad at dating then in think well he doesn't care if he isn't dating Me. Another thing in think being exclusive means relationship. Should I ask the guy what it means to him?
ConstantCraving Posted November 28, 2010 Posted November 28, 2010 It sounds as if he is very focused on getting off. If it is too soon for sex, you need to put him straight on that. BUT that doesn't mean he doesn't want exclusivity with you. He might be open to that.
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