SteveC80 Posted November 27, 2010 Posted November 27, 2010 I keep hearing on here how some women think Men are shallow and hot guys never approach them blah blah blah well why dont some of you plainer or unattratcive women do the approaching or at the very least approach men and show them your personality who you're interested in? Men do most of the approaching so of course theyre gonna approach what they like visually better at first because thats all they can go by at first approach they cant tell what a great person you are by you just standing there I dont undertsand how people who arent great looking nor posses great personalities expect people to flock to them The truth of the matter is Men and women who arent "hot" need a little more personality and that something extra to attract people its just the way it is So if you want to "overacheive" or even have decent sucess at all you have to put yourself out there
Mad Max Posted November 27, 2010 Posted November 27, 2010 Plain and unattractive women should be more pro active and approach guys Women in general should be more pro active and approach guys. They're only shooting themselves in the foot by choosing not to exercise equality in that type of situation.
Author SteveC80 Posted November 27, 2010 Author Posted November 27, 2010 Women in general should be more pro active and approach guys. They're only shooting themselves in the foot by choosing not to exercise equality in that type of situation. I agree to a point but as long as a womens not hideous shes probably getting hit on all the time in public places For a women to never get hit on she has to be pretty bad
Mad Max Posted November 27, 2010 Posted November 27, 2010 I agree to a point but as long as a womens not hideous shes probably getting hit on all the time in public places For a women to never get hit on she has to be pretty bad Pretty much. As long as she's at least average looking, she won't be short on attention. A guy would have to be at least an 8/10 to get the attention an average looking woman gets.
Author SteveC80 Posted November 27, 2010 Author Posted November 27, 2010 Pretty much. As long as she's at least average looking, she won't be short on attention. A guy would have to be at least an 8/10 to get the attention an average looking woman gets. Id agree though i wouldnt say average looking even id say as long as a womens not hideous This blah looking women that was in our group at at a lounge last week got hit on twice by two decent looking dudes and she turned em down I can see why women have inflated egos and think their "league" so to speak is higher then it really is
musemaj11 Posted November 27, 2010 Posted November 27, 2010 Although its true that even average women get hit on all the time, but most of the times its by guys they are not interested in.
Pfiend101 Posted November 27, 2010 Posted November 27, 2010 Most women have unrealistic expectations of what a suitable partner must be. 6 figure income, 6 pack, huge arms, drive a Lamborghini etc etc. Before I get flamed yes of course there are exceptions but that doesn't mean it's not true.
PegNosePete Posted November 27, 2010 Posted November 27, 2010 Most women have unrealistic expectations of what a suitable partner must be. 6 figure income, 6 pack, huge arms, drive a Lamborghini etc etc. That's not unrealistic, PM me. LOL.
Pfiend101 Posted November 27, 2010 Posted November 27, 2010 What do you think this is brokeback mountain? LOL
Seamless74 Posted November 27, 2010 Posted November 27, 2010 Another bash women thread,,, cmon guys this whole line of thinking is becoming a bit of a bore.. Women should not have to approach men, unless they want to.. not the way the system is supposed to work.
EasyHeart Posted November 27, 2010 Posted November 27, 2010 I completely disagree with this thread. I DO NOT WANT FUGLY CHICKS HITTING ON ME!!!
Author SteveC80 Posted November 27, 2010 Author Posted November 27, 2010 Another bash women thread,,, cmon guys this whole line of thinking is becoming a bit of a bore.. Women should not have to approach men, unless they want to.. not the way the system is supposed to work. There should be no "system" if youre a women and sitting back waiting isnt working try something else
sweetjasmine Posted November 27, 2010 Posted November 27, 2010 I completely disagree with this thread. I DO NOT WANT FUGLY CHICKS HITTING ON ME!!! Oh, I think the exact opposite. I'd love to see fugly chicks hitting on the sexy, hot, gorgeous, amazing stud muffins here so they can see how wonderful it is to get so much female attention all the time. Maybe they'll stop being jealous about how even average women (who deserve absolutely nothing, btw) always get hit on and turn down every guy who doesn't have a 6 pack, 6 figure income, and a Corvette. Maybe they'll stop f-ing b-tching about those average women turning them down and being stand-offish all the time. Hey, a gal can dream, can't she?
waynebrady Posted November 27, 2010 Posted November 27, 2010 The reason no women ever are pro-active and approach guys is because they couldn't care less about finding a guy. Women would be just as happy if not even more so without a guy than with a guy, and that has been proven over and over again. That's the reason women, not just the plain and unattractive ones don't take the initiative and approach guys.
Mad Max Posted November 27, 2010 Posted November 27, 2010 Another bash women thread,,, cmon guys this whole line of thinking is becoming a bit of a bore.. Women should not have to approach men, unless they want to.. not the way the system is supposed to work. Of course they shouldn't have to approach men. God forbid they get rejected.
AD1980 Posted November 27, 2010 Posted November 27, 2010 Of course they shouldn't have to approach men. God forbid they get rejected. Seriously average Men get rejected thosuands of times and are told Man up and get over it but a women cant handle rejection ever? If women approached guys and got rejected once in awhile maybe theyd realize our plight and be a little less rude when we approach..
musemaj11 Posted November 27, 2010 Posted November 27, 2010 A woman will settle with a monkey if a monkey is the only male willing to approach her. Thats the difference between men and women.
BobSacamento Posted November 27, 2010 Posted November 27, 2010 The reason no women ever are pro-active and approach guys is because they couldn't care less about finding a guy. Women would be just as happy if not even more so without a guy than with a guy, and that has been proven over and over again. That's the reason women, not just the plain and unattractive ones don't take the initiative and approach guys. I want to agree with you because I sometimes do hear it from women. Things like "I'm very independent." or "I don't need a man in my life to take care of me." I think they put up a pretty good wall but deep down as they look at their friends with their BFs and Husbands, you can tell they are a bit resentful. Deep down I don't believe a woman is happy being alone. However, some accept it believing it's futile to do anything about it, which is a shame, and almost excel at becoming shut-ins.
Mad Max Posted November 27, 2010 Posted November 27, 2010 A woman will settle with a monkey if a monkey is the only male willing to approach her. Thats the difference between men and women. As I said earlier, they're only shooting themselves in the foot if they refuse to make the first move. Like I said to one of my female friends: "Make him yours before some other girl does".
Seamless74 Posted November 27, 2010 Posted November 27, 2010 God you guys are so wrong on this and it just irks me to no end... First off Beware of the Fox that comes to you.... You know I mean men are dominant (or supposed to be anyway) and women supplicative (or supposed to be) yeah gender roles this gender roles that.. In regards to the attraction game its pretty much like it was 1000 years ago minus alot more body hair and clubs.. Have you ever had a girl hit on you?? Im serious have you?? I mean If you think the woman of your dreams is gonna walk right up to you and introduce herself and seduce you well than go to your nearest TACO BELL I think they call that the PIPE DREAM SUPREME ... And yeah for the 5's,6'sand 7's that hit on you it should be just a small sampling of what girls go through on a daily basis I wouldnt want most of the girls that have tried to "open" me or "seduce" me to do it more often,.,, Because Im not interested and theyre not that great at it... But more to the point.. I've said it before and I'll say it again... Women yes hot women, average women all women get rejected all the time by us guys.. Yup thats right us guys, guys better than us, all types of guys The only difference is we dont really know when were doing it... I mean how many times has a woman gave you an opening? That repeated darting glance, The walking by or positioning themselves near you for no apparent reason, The eye contact they hold with you for like 4 seconds.. Those are the womans equivalent of an approach Every time you dont say anything they probably take it as a rejection,, And Wonder whats wrong with them why guys wont talk to them,, little do they know most guys myself included are just scared ****less..
Mad Max Posted November 27, 2010 Posted November 27, 2010 Have you ever had a girl hit on you?? Im serious have you?? Yes. But more to the point.. I've said it before and I'll say it again... Women yes hot women, average women all women get rejected all the time by us guys.. Yup thats right us guys, guys better than us, all types of guys The only difference is we dont really know when were doing it... In order to get rejected, you actually have to make a move. Simply staring at someone or making a subtle(which most guys don't get anyway) doesn't count. I mean how many times has a woman gave you an opening? That repeated darting glance, The walking by or positioning themselves near you for no apparent reason, The eye contact they hold with you for like 4 seconds.. Those are the womans equivalent of an approach Every time you dont say anything they probably take it as a rejection,, And Wonder whats wrong with them why guys wont talk to them,, little do they know most guys myself included are just scared ****less.. That's not enough. I glance at people all the time, doesn't mean I'm interested in them. Women are only hurting themselves by not being more assertive. The passive woman will always lose out to the assertive woman that isn't afraid to make the first move. Just like most women don't have sympathy for passive men, I don't have sympathy for passive women.
EasyHeart Posted November 27, 2010 Posted November 27, 2010 ^^^Exactly right. We reject women all the time; we reject them by not approaching them. And as to women hitting on men, in a thread a while back a female poster said something like: "Imagine a bunch of drunk Roseanne Barrs constantly hitting on you, and you'll be able to start imagining what it's like to be a woman".
Mad Max Posted November 27, 2010 Posted November 27, 2010 ^^^Exactly right. We reject women all the time; we reject them by not approaching them. And as to women hitting on men, in a thread a while back a female poster said something like: "Imagine a bunch of drunk Roseanne Barrs constantly hitting on you, and you'll be able to start imagining what it's like to be a woman". At least Roseanne is hilarious and has a personality.
dispatch3d Posted November 27, 2010 Posted November 27, 2010 yeah even the average looking women get hit on tons, so I don't know why you think they are going to start hitting on guys. Not sure what to tell you. Get over it?
Mad Max Posted November 27, 2010 Posted November 27, 2010 yeah even the average looking women get hit on tons, so I don't know why you think they are going to start hitting on guys. Not sure what to tell you. Get over it? The average looking ones are still more likely to hit on men than the hot ones. And let's be honest; if you're a good looking guy, you can afford to wait for a woman to hit on you.
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