wondergirl_6 Posted November 26, 2010 Posted November 26, 2010 I posted yesterday about contacting a guy I met first online and then in person once almost 4 weeks ago and last contacted 3 weeks ago. I didn't mention other guys I dated in the process but also didn't put on the "I was so busy" story. He replied last night at 1:30am saying at the end of his email "...I had fun chatting with you as well, and definitely enjoyed learning your perspective on things... I'd definitely be up for hanging out again. Perhaps we can do something this weekend." Last time we just had lunch, paid for ourselves, he bought me a coffee then and we spent 5 hours together, talking about plenty of social/political/cultural issues. I didn't keep in touch with him because I didn't feel that he had romantic feelings for me and he wasn't as fun as he sounded in emails so I was slightly disappointed. I contacted him again now since I still considered him a good friend to talk to (he's knowledgeable, smart, etc) and also I want to see if he actually has feelings for me. He did asked for a second "hanging out" right after the first one. Is it ok just "hanging out" like this? Or should I talk to him about it first so I'm not leading him on?
OldSkool Posted November 28, 2010 Posted November 28, 2010 ...I met first online and then in person once almost 4 weeks ago and last contacted 3 weeks ago. I didn't mention other guys I dated in the process but also didn't put on the "I was so busy" story........ ....I didn't keep in touch with him because I didn't feel that he had romantic feelings for me and he wasn't as fun as he sounded in emails so I was slightly disappointed. It sounds like this guy likes you as a person, likes hanging out with you, and is perceptive enough to tell that you are not that interested in him, and therefore is not going to make a fool of himself. Peace.
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