Tell me what you think?

[evalyn73]

Here is the scenerio, S/O and myself decide to go out and have some fun at the casino. I enjoy playing slots they enjoy poker. We occasionally break from our games and play together depending on how good we are doing. This particualr evening I am playing on a machine and I am winning an aquaintance walk by says hi and keeps going. ( This person is someone I have known for a long time before I was with S/O has interacted with this person before but they do not like me to talk to them or anyone else for that matter) Shortly after my S/O come over get a cigarette says hi watch me play for a few I assumed they were going back to play poker. I am really into my machine because I was on a role, have fun! Next, thing I know this aquaintance sit down at a machine next to me! I immediately act as if I am waiting on someone they make a comment I tell them I am waiting on my man and Poof there is my S/O, the aquaintance says whats up man? Just being cool and my S/O pops off with " I do not know you tell me? I stop look at my S/O they spout off mad at me and takes off. So I immediately cash out my ticket and head in the same direction looking for my S/O. I find a machine right by the elevators so when he decides to leave I can find him. I do not have a cell phone mind you so I can not just call him. After losing my money in this machine I begin to look for my S/O.

 

Eventually, I discover that he stormed out and left me at the casino 45 minutes from our house, no cell phone, no money, and no ride. Its about 11 pm We have to be at school at 8 am. I begin to feed the pay phone dollar after dollar begging him to come get me.. He hangs up on me or makes comment but never comes and gets me. I refuse to get a ride from a stranger and there is no one I know to give me a ride. I call all night no luck. He goes to school finally I call the school at 8:30 and tell them I had a family emergency and could not make it to class and ask if my S/o is there he is they get him and finally 10 hours later he decides to come and pick me up. I had to ask anyone that would talk to me to use there phone he would not answer. I asked him what he expects me to do when someone I know sit next to me at a public place. I do everything in my power to discourage them from interacting with me, turned away informed them I was looking for my S/O who come to find out was watching the whole thing so he actually saw this person sit next to me, me look around for him and then he was there. He says I hurt his feeling because I should have immediately got up and left my winning machine because a aqauintance sit next to me.

 

Do you think that he had a valid reason to leave me at the casino?

 

 

What he does to me is accuses me of being dishonest and sneaky when it is his own guilty conscious, he always can get ahold of me or know where I am. But he takes off for hours wont answer his phone but its okay he was playing cards.

 

 

The only thing he can say I did wrong was I had a old my space account I could not access and it said I was single. I tried to delete it but I could not access it. After a month goes by he goes back to my space and sees the same account and goes off on me. He tries to find anything to blame me for to justify his actions!

 

 

 

Isn't this typical behaviour for someone who is cheating?

[cerridwen]

Umm...wow.

 

His response was so overboard I wondered for a moment if your post was real. I say that not to insult you but because I couldn't believe what I was reading. He left you at the casino for 10 HOURS?!?!?! Ten. Hours. I would never, ever talk to someone who did that to me (and I've put up with crap!)

 

If you were reading your post as someone else, does this sound like the kind of guy ANY girl would want? Doesn't he sound like someone so insecure he has to go off on his girl rather than control his fears? Doesn't she sound like she deserves better? Because evalyn, you do.

[nittanylion]

Here is the scenerio, S/O and myself decide to go out and have some fun at the casino. I enjoy playing slots they enjoy poker. We occasionally break from our games and play together depending on how good we are doing. This particualr evening I am playing on a machine and I am winning an aquaintance walk by says hi and keeps going. ( This person is someone I have known for a long time before I was with S/O has interacted with this person before but they do not like me to talk to them or anyone else for that matter) Shortly after my S/O come over get a cigarette says hi watch me play for a few I assumed they were going back to play poker. I am really into my machine because I was on a role, have fun! Next, thing I know this aquaintance sit down at a machine next to me! I immediately act as if I am waiting on someone they make a comment I tell them I am waiting on my man and Poof there is my S/O, the aquaintance says whats up man? Just being cool and my S/O pops off with " I do not know you tell me? I stop look at my S/O they spout off mad at me and takes off. So I immediately cash out my ticket and head in the same direction looking for my S/O. I find a machine right by the elevators so when he decides to leave I can find him. I do not have a cell phone mind you so I can not just call him. After losing my money in this machine I begin to look for my S/O.

 

Eventually, I discover that he stormed out and left me at the casino 45 minutes from our house, no cell phone, no money, and no ride. Its about 11 pm We have to be at school at 8 am. I begin to feed the pay phone dollar after dollar begging him to come get me.. He hangs up on me or makes comment but never comes and gets me. I refuse to get a ride from a stranger and there is no one I know to give me a ride. I call all night no luck. He goes to school finally I call the school at 8:30 and tell them I had a family emergency and could not make it to class and ask if my S/o is there he is they get him and finally 10 hours later he decides to come and pick me up. I had to ask anyone that would talk to me to use there phone he would not answer. I asked him what he expects me to do when someone I know sit next to me at a public place. I do everything in my power to discourage them from interacting with me, turned away informed them I was looking for my S/O who come to find out was watching the whole thing so he actually saw this person sit next to me, me look around for him and then he was there. He says I hurt his feeling because I should have immediately got up and left my winning machine because a aqauintance sit next to me.

 

Do you think that he had a valid reason to leave me at the casino?

 

 

What he does to me is accuses me of being dishonest and sneaky when it is his own guilty conscious, he always can get ahold of me or know where I am. But he takes off for hours wont answer his phone but its okay he was playing cards.

 

 

The only thing he can say I did wrong was I had a old my space account I could not access and it said I was single. I tried to delete it but I could not access it. After a month goes by he goes back to my space and sees the same account and goes off on me. He tries to find anything to blame me for to justify his actions!

 

 

 

Isn't this typical behaviour for someone who is cheating?

 

He sounds like a jealous, insecure, and a controlling freak. You are in for a long ride! Good luck to you!

[SmileyGirl]

I could not agree more!! Run while you can!!!

 

You deserve so so so much better! ... no one deserves that amount of disrespect. Your guy needs some serious professional help.

 

I would be livid!... heck I'm livid FOR YOU just from reading your post!

[deserve_better]

They're all right! This can only get worse. For you own safety, GET OUT. Don't you have somewhere you can go, or some one that is willing to help you get away and back on your feet? If you do, I would contact them ASAP.