lee123 Posted November 26, 2010 Posted November 26, 2010 Basically i left my ex, after she did the just did the "friends thing". She got a different number, i answered not knowing who it was. We basically had an argument, i'm finding not talking to hard enough not to talk to her all ready, she said she almost committed suicide (don't know if this was true) but now i feel really like ****. She was calling me a few other things i can't mention. And said she never wants to talk to me again. (even though thats what i wanted). I was just getting slightly better, now i feel back where i started :/
cerridwen Posted November 27, 2010 Posted November 27, 2010 Ugh. That's how I felt today too after breaking NC when he texted last night. I felt all the feelings intensely again. Because our interaction was good, it brought out a bunch of good feelings about this not-such-a-good-guy. Are you going to recommit to NC? Hopefully for your sake?
Am4Real Posted November 27, 2010 Posted November 27, 2010 Basically i left my ex, after she did the just did the "friends thing". She got a different number, i answered not knowing who it was. We basically had an argument, i'm finding not talking to hard enough not to talk to her all ready, she said she almost committed suicide (don't know if this was true) but now i feel really like ****. She was calling me a few other things i can't mention. And said she never wants to talk to me again. (even though thats what i wanted). I was just getting slightly better, now i feel back where i started :/ Sorry to hear that you're set back... She called you for a few things you "cannot mention" makes no sense to me... Why would someone call you to tell you they "never want to talk to you again"; that's not logical, they simply would never contact you. What are we missing here as the post is hard to give comment or advise on.
Author lee123 Posted November 27, 2010 Author Posted November 27, 2010 Well basically she said let's just be friends, so I so I went nc. She wanted me back, so we went back out, and she ignored and nc me for days so I said it's over. Then she rings, telling me it's my fault she almost killed herself, even though she cheated on me, which I just found out. Go abuse like I'm ugly all that etc. Now I'm back where I'm started :/ feel like crap.
Am4Real Posted November 28, 2010 Posted November 28, 2010 Well basically she said let's just be friends, so I so I went nc. She wanted me back, so we went back out, and she ignored and nc me for days so I said it's over. Then she rings, telling me it's my fault she almost killed herself, even though she cheated on me, which I just found out. Go abuse like I'm ugly all that etc. Now I'm back where I'm started :/ feel like crap. She sounds like she is "off her rocker" or very immature. How old is she?
Starrlove Posted November 28, 2010 Posted November 28, 2010 Lee..having been a 17 y.o. female once I can tell you right now that she is using extreme tactics with you. She is saying the most out there things in order to regain you back. Committing suicide? That's not even funny. And if I were you I would have called her parents (whether she's serious or not). This girl, from what I'm reading, is extremely immature. Please be the bigger person and explain to her why you want NC, that you understand if she's not happy with it but it's something that you need to do for yourself. If she tries to contact you again, esp. from a number you don't know ignore it and let it go to voicemail.
Author lee123 Posted November 28, 2010 Author Posted November 28, 2010 thanks for replying yeah, i was gunna contact her parents but i'm trying not to think about her, it was hard enough already, this just makes it worse :/
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