casey001 Posted November 26, 2010 Posted November 26, 2010 Hey all How do you deal with someone who has very hot and cold behaviour?! To cut a long story very short I met this guy recently who I have fallen for really badly. He chased me, would txt me every day and night non stop and call me gorgeous, angel etc. Things really heated up and we became so very close, knowing everything about each other in a very short space. If I didnt reply to a message he would txt again, basically he never left me alone. But I loved it! He is also a realy sweetheart to me in person, really hugging etc. Anyway this week has been odd. He has been normal to me in person but If I go to txt him like normal i'll just get a one word answer or something short where I cant keep conversation going. Up untill last night he had been totally normal to me in person. However last night he just seemed really disinterested in me. I was confused so txt him later on and just got a one word reply. I haven't done anything wrong and Ive been my normal self so why has he gone cold all ofa sudden? I remember once he told me I wasn't showing him much interest (which I dont see how cause I told him I really liked him etc and always replied to his messages) So I tried to step it up a bit by messaging him a bit more this week but Ive just been pretty much ignored in return?!?! Your probably all going to answer and say hes lost interest so what do I do from here? NC? I have to see him every day so could really do with some advice here. I actually really really like this guy and the cold behaviour really hurts. Please give me some advice how to act round him!! Thanks so much!
ConstantCraving Posted November 26, 2010 Posted November 26, 2010 Hey all How do you deal with someone who has very hot and cold behaviour?! To cut a long story very short I met this guy recently who I have fallen for really badly. He chased me, would txt me every day and night non stop and call me gorgeous, angel etc. Things really heated up and we became so very close, knowing everything about each other in a very short space. If I didnt reply to a message he would txt again, basically he never left me alone. But I loved it! He is also a realy sweetheart to me in person, really hugging etc. Anyway this week has been odd. He has been normal to me in person but If I go to txt him like normal i'll just get a one word answer or something short where I cant keep conversation going. Up untill last night he had been totally normal to me in person. However last night he just seemed really disinterested in me. I was confused so txt him later on and just got a one word reply. I haven't done anything wrong and Ive been my normal self so why has he gone cold all ofa sudden? I remember once he told me I wasn't showing him much interest (which I dont see how cause I told him I really liked him etc and always replied to his messages) So I tried to step it up a bit by messaging him a bit more this week but Ive just been pretty much ignored in return?!?! Your probably all going to answer and say hes lost interest so what do I do from here? NC? I have to see him every day so could really do with some advice here. I actually really really like this guy and the cold behaviour really hurts. Please give me some advice how to act round him!! Thanks so much! The ONLY sensible thing to do here is BACK OFF. If he doesn't want an interaction with you then STOP contacting him. Wait for HIM to contact YOU. One of two things will happen: 1. He'll start messaging you again and things will get back to normal. 2. He's already lost interest and you won't hear from him again.
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