TheGrimSweeper Posted November 26, 2010 Posted November 26, 2010 So to make a long story short, I was dating my girlfriend for a year and 4 months and then she wanted a break and ended it. She had gotten really busy and we both didn't have enough time to spend with each other, and I thought she had stopped caring about me so I stopped caring myself. She wanted to be friends after and I did, before I finally came out and said I can't be friends cause I still love her and it was too hard on me. A few weeks after that she came back and we got back together. We've been back for almost 6 months but it hasn't quite been the same and I'm just figuring out now why. I've been overanalyzing everything and trying to make everything perfect for us since we got back together. I've put her first above myself and everything which I never did before. Not all the time, some days I was just myself and those were the best days we were together, but recently I've been really bad for this. I could tell she was losing respect for me over the past few weeks but I didnt do anything as i didn't even fully realize what I was doing until now. She's now saying shes tired of the way shes been treating me and shes unhappy and may want a break to figure out if she either will be happy with me or stop stringing me along. She texted me that and I told her yesterday will talk in person on Sunday when we get together and left it at that. One of the biggest problems we have is we don't communicate enough, I've never told her about why I've been doing this she just thinks I've changed, which I haven't, I just haven't always been myself around her. Anyway there won't be another break, i'm not letting that happen and not sitting back and waiting for her to make up her mind on me. I'm going to go all out sunday, and say your either with me or not, and I'll explain why I've been acting differently and now that I've realized it I know I can stop. The question, is it too late to get her respect back?
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