mha Posted November 26, 2010 Posted November 26, 2010 I found a camera hidden in the bathroom and suspect my cousin brother of having hidden it...i even confronted him on this but he denied totally saying he cannot even think of doing such a thing for me and had hidden the camera to keep an eye on the maid of misusing the household in our absence. I dont understand what to believe and what not!!! Is it some kind of a mental illness.
Kendrick Posted November 26, 2010 Posted November 26, 2010 "had hidden the camera to keep an eye on the maid of misusing the household in our absence". The household? But yet the camera was in the bathroom? Haha! I call BS. So what are you planning on doing with the camera. Destroy it would be the best thing. Also, you said him..who is him? Your cousin or your brother?
ConstantCraving Posted November 26, 2010 Posted November 26, 2010 I found a camera hidden in the bathroom and suspect my cousin brother of having hidden it...i even confronted him on this but he denied totally saying he cannot even think of doing such a thing for me and had hidden the camera to keep an eye on the maid of misusing the household in our absence. I dont understand what to believe and what not!!! Is it some kind of a mental illness. What horrible crime is the maid going to commit in the bathroom? Btw, what's a "cousin brother"?
PandorasBox Posted November 26, 2010 Posted November 26, 2010 Is there anyway you can view what was on the camera so far? If there is one in the bathroom and no where else in the house, then I doubt its to see what the maid is taking!
goingstrong Posted November 26, 2010 Posted November 26, 2010 Cousin brother? The troll radar is going off.
Author mha Posted November 27, 2010 Author Posted November 27, 2010 He is my cousin!!!I have already taken the camera, checked it...there was no earlier recording on it...bt I am nt sure whether smething recorded earlier was deleted or this was the first time..... He says he had kept it to check if the maid used the bathroom in our absence...which I doubt becoz it seems he set the camera just before I entered the bathroom.... I dont knw hw to deal with him now!!!Cant afford to tell ny1 at home and hence cant strain the relations...what to do??How do i behave with him... Is it possible that he suffers from some kind of mental illness???
Ms. Red Posted November 27, 2010 Posted November 27, 2010 He is my cousin!!!I have already taken the camera, checked it...there was no earlier recording on it...bt I am nt sure whether smething recorded earlier was deleted or this was the first time..... He says he had kept it to check if the maid used the bathroom in our absence...which I doubt becoz it seems he set the camera just before I entered the bathroom.... I dont knw hw to deal with him now!!!Cant afford to tell ny1 at home and hence cant strain the relations...what to do??How do i behave with him... Is it possible that he suffers from some kind of mental illness??? Yes, it's called Sexual Perversion. Sorry you are dealing with this. Are there other people that use that bathroom or is it just your bathroom? How old are you and how old is he? There's a different way to handle it depending on these answers. Also, I don't know what advice to give you if you are unable to bring it to the attention of anyone else in the household.
Kendrick Posted November 27, 2010 Posted November 27, 2010 So your maid isn't allowed to use the bathroom? I say he is feeding you a line of b*llsh*t. He put that in there to either see you or the maid. Whether its using the bathroom or taking a shower etc. Yes, its wrong, and if you do not tell anyone else what he did, then you're just keeping his little secret.
goingstrong Posted November 27, 2010 Posted November 27, 2010 He is spying on females that use the bathroom..period. I would destroy it, and warn him that you will call the police if he does it again. BTW, what he is doing is illegal in most Western countries.
sally4sara Posted November 27, 2010 Posted November 27, 2010 He is spying on females that use the bathroom..period. I would destroy it, and warn him that you will call the police if he does it again. BTW, what he is doing is illegal in most Western countries. Meh, the law varies from state to state in the US, but creepy dude doesn't need to know that if he doesn't already. Its your cousin? Does he live with you or can you tell him to not come over anymore? Keep him away from the kids.
Author mha Posted November 28, 2010 Author Posted November 28, 2010 Yes, it's called Sexual Perversion. Sorry you are dealing with this. Are there other people that use that bathroom or is it just your bathroom? How old are you and how old is he? There's a different way to handle it depending on these answers. Also, I don't know what advice to give you if you are unable to bring it to the attention of anyone else in the household. Thanks Ms. Red for ur reply...the bathroom is a common bathroom whish every1 in the house uses...I am 28 and he is 37 years old....he is the most trusted man in our family and if any of the elders come 2 knw abt this they'll be shattered and wont be able to bear the shock...that's why I can't tell any1... i cant call the police either becoz then it'll be known to all.... tell me hw I should be behaving with him nw...
xpaperxcutx Posted November 28, 2010 Posted November 28, 2010 That's sick. He's a pervert, you know, he knows it, except he's coming up with excuses to lay the blame on the maid Tell your entire family and expose him. I'd be worried about the safety of any children in the house.
Kendrick Posted November 29, 2010 Posted November 29, 2010 Thanks Ms. Red for ur reply...the bathroom is a common bathroom whish every1 in the house uses...I am 28 and he is 37 years old....he is the most trusted man in our family and if any of the elders come 2 knw abt this they'll be shattered and wont be able to bear the shock...that's why I can't tell any1... i cant call the police either becoz then it'll be known to all.... tell me hw I should be behaving with him nw... Yeah so its best just to cover up for him huh? If the elders would be in such shock over this couldn't imagine how they would be if he were doing worse things.....this is why people like him get away with things, because no one will say anything. He is to blame for what he is doing, you are to blame for not saying anything.
JackJack Posted November 29, 2010 Posted November 29, 2010 So you're more worried about what others will think since he is the "most trusted guy" in the family, than the safety of others in the home, even possibly kids? He isn't trust worthy if he is doing this kind of thing. If he was so worried about the maid and what she was doing, why didn't he let anyone else in on what he was doing so they could keep a look out too? Does that not tell you something?
EnigmasMuse Posted November 29, 2010 Posted November 29, 2010 Uggg! What's the point of posting about this issue and asking for advice if you're not gonna take it and tell someone in the family about what he is doing? Getting it all out here is fine, but we can't change your situation and what your cousin is doing. Maybe someone in your family can if they knew!
Ms. Red Posted November 30, 2010 Posted November 30, 2010 Yeah so its best just to cover up for him huh? If the elders would be in such shock over this couldn't imagine how they would be if he were doing worse things.....this is why people like him get away with things, because no one will say anything. He is to blame for what he is doing, you are to blame for not saying anything. I agree. So you're more worried about what others will think since he is the "most trusted guy" in the family, than the safety of others in the home, even possibly kids? He isn't trust worthy if he is doing this kind of thing. If he was so worried about the maid and what she was doing, why didn't he let anyone else in on what he was doing so they could keep a look out too? Does that not tell you something? Totally. He's full of bull. So if you can't (or won't) tell because of the elders, then tell someone younger and maybe they can deal with it without the elders finding out. To sit idly by and not do anything is IMO the same as supporting what the perv is doing.
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