SlevinKalebra Posted November 26, 2010 Posted November 26, 2010 Read the back stories on this if you want the whole story. Went to court again the other day and I realized just what an uphill battle I am facing appearantly my testes are weighing me down. From the second my stbxw came into the court it was obvious that the gender card was going to be all that she needs to get away with anything, just like it has in the past. My daughter tells me she was watched by her drunken ex. I bring this information to the court's attention and they say a 2 yr old's teatimony is not admissable. Then I bring up the fact that she has signed a lease with her ex. I get told that because I got it from the internet (Lexus Nexus, a court based only website) it's not admissable, then in the same breath I get admonished for not getting the courts orders off of the same website. The GAL comes on and all her abuse and poor decision making is labeled as poor her makes herself an easy target because of her actions (you know like abuse, going back to abusers, lying to the court, etc.... etc...) He also says he believes she'll follow all court orders despite ignoring the court's orders with the exact same GAL a few months earlier. Then despite having counselors that said my daughter and her son are to be kept apart because of his issues the judge decides that this is just not right and says you go ahead and let them play together we trust you to over ride the counselor's warnings. I get told by the judge "you need to let go of your concerns there is no need for them and obviously YOU have issues." I've got counselor's notes, a written confession by her son, the abuse of my son by this ******* is ruled hearsay despite being documented by CPS, her ex's huge criminal background reports, a lease agreement from the court's website showing her moving back in with her ex, and my daughter's statement to the police that she broke the order of no contact. ALL F***ING INADMISSABLE or disregarded completely. Then comes the attacks on me: "you have anger management issues" because I punched 2 walls in the house. Once when my son with CP fell in the shower and cracked his ribs on the bath spigget. The next day my stbxw is telling me how worthless I am as a parent because I ran upstairs because he was screaming, then her kids start thier $#!t calling me an idiot and other more colorful explicatives (which they learned from her). With no one else around I throw an elbow into the corner and leave a dent. The second basically the same as the first sans cracked ribs. The abuse of my son by this ******* is ruled hearsay despite being documented by CPS. She is painted as the poor mother who's trying so hard and doing the best she can, and I am the crazy ex with issues. Maybe they are onto something because at that moment if I had a mal tav that whole building would be cinders. Last ditch effort will be a P.I. I have no doubt there will be some reason why the P.I.'s report will be thrown out as well
january2010 Posted January 4, 2011 Posted January 4, 2011 A link to your latest thread: Drama drama drama
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