bitteorca Posted November 26, 2010 Posted November 26, 2010 Hi You can find the other threads I have started by clicking on my name, but simply put: I was with a girl for about 2 months, known her for about 3 months. Started to see her behaviour change towards me slightly Received a text breaking up with me Wed night. I know I should not be feeling this bad after just a relatively short relationship. But I can't sleep (I have 3 X 12 hour shifts coming up now ) and haven't been eating properly. It consumes my thoughts night and day. Even though I know deep down she wasn't the one (I made a list of her negatives, and there was many) and that I will be alright, I just seem to be so broken at the moment by this. I was looking forward to things with her as well, like christmas and new years. Now they will suck Help
juand Posted November 26, 2010 Posted November 26, 2010 Hey I know how you feel i was there two months ago when my gf of three years broke up with me. We had alot of things set up like all cpls do. Time does heal things, just help yourself by doing things that keep you busy. Maybe going to work those shifts will help you out alot. It did for me, i just kept busy and tried to keep my phone away from me (leaving it home or things like that) that way your not looking to see if she texted or called you. Also stay away from looking for her, let her come to you. I did that after a month of suffering and now she is looking for me but is still not sure wether we can be together. So just keep busy, workout, run, work alot, make your self a better person, more than what you are now and she will realize what she lost. You say she has a lot of negative aspects so just think of those and only those, she doesnt deserve you then.
skydiveaddict Posted November 26, 2010 Posted November 26, 2010 (edited) Hi I know I should not be feeling this bad after just a relatively short relationship. But I can't sleep (I have 3 X 12 hour shifts coming up now ) and haven't been eating properly. It consumes my thoughts night and day. I don't think you can control how fast or how hard you will fall for someone. As for not eating or sleeping because of this, I can only tell you that I've been there too. Just press ahead and you will make it through. And Juand is right. Stay away from your phone, better yet block her # so you don't have to deal with it at all Edited November 26, 2010 by skydiveaddict
Fufu Posted November 26, 2010 Posted November 26, 2010 It's natural to feel this way, don't blame yourself. My ex-bf broke up with me 1 month ago and I still miss him alot, and still feel like crap at times.. But the good thing is, we are always getting stronger day by day.
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