Reply I am lost

[juand]

Hey loveshack ppl, so my gf broke up with me over two months, we have kept in touch for the whole time until i broke contact for about two and a half weeks until she called crying. We have begun to talk since then. She has said that she misses me, needs me, loves me, and she has been the one staying in touch by calling or texting me. What i need help is with the fact that i asked her if she wanted a relationship but she answered that she doesnt know and that she is confused. I told her i did not want a friendship with her at all, i would not be her friend. She wants to hang out tomorrow and do something but I am not sure wether i should or not. Why should i please her by seeing me when she doesnt want something serious. please help me decide wether i should just tell her to leave me alone and live her life without me or should i just play her game and go aalong with things and see if she does realize we should be together...

[cerridwen]

Why should i please her by seeing me when she doesnt want something serious.

 

Exactly. If you decide to meet her, it will be completely for her benefit alone.

 

Why did she break up with you? Was it warranted?

 

Assuming it was something innocuous, it would be smart for you to give her time alone to resolve her confusion. Exes can be incredibly selfish and I fear that's what she's being with you. She may just be wanting the support and friendship you provide because she got lonely but knows in her heart she wants to move on. You were clear you wanted something more, she seemed to ignore it. Not good.

[Fufu]

If you still have romantic feelings for her,

 

"Do not be her friends. Do not hang out with her."

 

By being her friends, you will have to accept anything that happens in her life, including her having a new boyfriend.

 

At this moment, it is good that you give yourself some space and break, away from her.

[livelife]

don't see her!!!!!! it will hurt you especially because she doesnt want anything with you.