chryssy83 Posted November 26, 2010 Posted November 26, 2010 Hey all, for some reason it just occurred to me to get on here tonight. I've been reading my old posts (like four years old, a lot of them). It's really crazy to remember how broken-hearted I was in the past--and often at the holidays! So, besides wishing you all a Happy Thanksgiving....let me say this. You will be okay. You will eventually feel better, even though you don't think you can right now. No Contact totally works. The best way to get over them and the best way to get them back...so convenient. But also, it's true that you should give serious thought to whether you really want someone back when a relationship is broken. Most often, you'll end up in the same place again. My commitment-phobic, serial cheater ex is now MARRIED. To someone who seems to be a lovely girl. I gave us both room to move on when a switch just flipped for me....this guy was a WASTE OF MY TIME. He was trying to cheat on her with me at the beginning of their relationship. I didn't know about her, but I suspected, and I called him after he showed up on my doorstep with a birthday gift and told him we were never going to talk again. 3 more boyfriends and a bunch of other dates later, I can tell you that I am happier single now than I ever was with him. And the right guy will come along...my life is great now, he was holding me back. The right guy won't. So here's to the broken-hearted people on this board this Thanksgiving. You will be okay. You will be in my prayers. Just keep processing your feelings and have faith that it can get better. Blessings to you all!
AlisaMarie Posted November 26, 2010 Posted November 26, 2010 You are beautiful for posting this! I am glad that you have found yourself happy and single! I am going through a rough on and off relationship and I am trying to make it off, but the heartbreak creates an addiction. I really needed some inspiration tonight... it's really hard to eat turky and pumkin pie when your heart is in 10million peices! Thank you again! Thanks for checking up on us! And I hope you NEVER have to put a post here again!
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