Its.not.too.late Posted November 25, 2010 Share Posted November 25, 2010 Happy Thanksgiving Loveshackers!! I have a predicament with my girlfriend. We been together for nearly 2 years and we just got back together after a horrible 3 week break-up. Well the issue at hand is what helped break us up at first. So here goes my best at explaining it. My girlfriend and I fight... Usually over stupid reasons with little reason. Well she thinks I don't treat her right because I don't listen, I don't understand and I'm never there. I disrespect her and mock her. Reality is, she'll blame me and accuse me of everything that doesn't go her way. She will yell and literally freak out. I try and help her calm down, to listen and realize there is a bigger picture in her narrow view. I even sit there, let her yell and have her way. It usually ends in me feeling guilty and hurt. Whenever I try to discuss the way things really are, she'll stick her nose in her phone by texting, AIM or Yahoo Messager. If she doesn't, she will drop it, ignore me or change topics. It's like she wants to tell me what I do is wrong, yet won't even care when I actually attempt to get to the roots of the issues. I dont want to be blamed for everything and want communication so she doesn't leave me again, say I treat her wrongly and never is there. Any advice? Link to post Share on other sites
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