kheart Posted November 25, 2010 Posted November 25, 2010 Two years ago, I started being friends with this guy. He was married and I was separated. Throughout our friendship, he confided in me about his relationship with his wife with the problem they were having. Our friendship grew into more on an intimate level. 5 months ago, he separated from his wife. I always thought in my head, if he ever were to leave his wife, we would be together. The day he left his wife, things were not the same for us. I would see him less, we would talk for just a minute on the phone and he texted me only when he wanted to. Finally, when I questioned him about his behavior, he told everything is fine. I am acting crazy with putting things in my head. To make a long story short, I was his friends on facebook, he deleted. a month later, his fb status said, he is in a relationship with another girl and he posted the girl's name. I was hurt and I asked him why he did that? He told me that I live too far. I said it is only an hour and a half. Besides, it wasn't a problem before, why now. he got so mad at me. he hanged up the phone. That was the last I heard of him. I feel hurt because we were friends first and then lovers. It is like, he didn't care about the friendship at all. I blocked him from both my house and cellphone numbers. I even went to block him of sending me emails. Now, I can't stop wondering if he made any attempts of calling me. A part of me wants him to call me. Please if anyone has any advice, pleast I am open to hear anything. Thanks BrokenHeart
PegNosePete Posted November 25, 2010 Posted November 25, 2010 If he cheats with you, he'll cheat on you. I think you've just proved this is true! He is not a trustworthy person. He cheated on his wife. He used you, and when he got bored of you he moved on to someone else. Just don't talk to him again, move on with your life, and find someone single who you can trust.
Pomppikani Posted November 25, 2010 Posted November 25, 2010 Sonds like you were just a plaster for him. He needed someone to help him to broke his marriage and when it was done, you were useless.
Author kheart Posted December 1, 2010 Author Posted December 1, 2010 yes, now that I look back, that is exactly what I was to him. and to even think about it, make me sick to my stomach 'cause to me he was more than a friend. I did a lot for him. now, he hates me. he wants nothing to do with me and I don't even know why. All I did was confronted him and he got mad. that is sad!
Leandro Posted December 1, 2010 Posted December 1, 2010 yes, now that I look back, that is exactly what I was to him. and to even think about it, make me sick to my stomach 'cause to me he was more than a friend. I did a lot for him. now, he hates me. he wants nothing to do with me and I don't even know why. All I did was confronted him and he got mad. that is sad! Yes it is sad. I'm sorry that he used you. Stick to NC and cut him out of your life. You don't need him.
scubachick Posted December 1, 2010 Posted December 1, 2010 My previously married boyfriend who I have been with for over a year, just dumped me by email. I think he used me to heal himself, and when things got sticky in his own life he decided it was just easier to be alone. This guy is a user. And a cheater. Just like mine was. Be happy you are not with him.
qinboxmail Posted December 1, 2010 Posted December 1, 2010 Two years ago, I started being friends with this guy. He was married and I was separated. Throughout our friendship, he confided in me about his relationship with his wife with the problem they were having. Our friendship grew into more on an intimate level. 5 months ago, he separated from his wife. I always thought in my head, if he ever were to leave his wife, we would be together. The day he left his wife, things were not the same for us. I would see him less, we would talk for just a minute on the phone and he texted me only when he wanted to. Finally, when I questioned him about his behavior, he told everything is fine. I am acting crazy with putting things in my head. To make a long story short, I was his friends on facebook, he deleted. a month later, his fb status said, he is in a relationship with another girl and he posted the girl's name. I was hurt and I asked him why he did that? He told me that I live too far. I said it is only an hour and a half. Besides, it wasn't a problem before, why now. he got so mad at me. he hanged up the phone. That was the last I heard of him. I feel hurt because we were friends first and then lovers. It is like, he didn't care about the friendship at all. I blocked him from both my house and cellphone numbers. I even went to block him of sending me emails. Now, I can't stop wondering if he made any attempts of calling me. A part of me wants him to call me. Please if anyone has any advice, pleast I am open to hear anything. Thanks BrokenHeart The only advice and the only thing you need to do is to RUN AWAY. Change your number, change your e-mail change everything. There are plenty of people who will use you and walk away when they're done. You're now their trash. And you know that you're not a trash. Good luck.
Author kheart Posted December 1, 2010 Author Posted December 1, 2010 Thanks for the advice guys. I know that there is someone out there who is ready to treat me nice. I am waiting for him.
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