SimplyIzzy2010 Posted November 25, 2010 Posted November 25, 2010 Hi LSers: i used to post on here, for advice about my ex, that was like 2 years ago! let me tell you that since then i am completely over him. i met a great guy. my only problem is that this new guy left me too, he broke up with me because he said he "needed to work on his relationship with god". the problem is that i think he broke up with his ex the same way. i confronted him about it, he said "just trust me". I broke NC with him november 1st, my birthday. to tell him everything that was on my mind. a no regrets type of thing. he told me he missed me, still had feelings for me. but that we couldn't be together. he told me to get over him. I havent talked to him since. its so much harder to get over this one.... he was actually a fantastic guy My question is: i need advice. this whole religion thing... is the reason he gave me credible? does a relationship really inerfere with a relationship? do you guys think he really meant what he said about missing me? or was he just being nice? advice me, my dears, PLEASE?
PegNosePete Posted November 25, 2010 Posted November 25, 2010 My advice is that none of this matters. He is gone, that is all that is important. You need to move forward with your life, not psycho-analyse everything he said, what he might have been feeling, what he might have felt, etc. It's all irrelevant to you now. Just NC him and move on.
Fufu Posted November 25, 2010 Posted November 25, 2010 The dumpers can say whatever they want but as long as they stand firm in their decision, not willing to work things out with us. Whatever they said be it pleasant or unpleasant to our ears, they don't matter anymore. If we read too much into what they said, it's going to affect us healing and moving on. If they want us back, let them do the action and chasing, not us. We sit back, relax and enjoy our lives.
cerridwen Posted November 25, 2010 Posted November 25, 2010 (edited) Hi LSers: My question is: i need advice. this whole religion thing... is the reason he gave me credible? does a relationship really inerfere with a relationship? do you guys think he really meant what he said about missing me? or was he just being nice? advice me, my dears, PLEASE? Yes, a spiritual goal/journey can really interfere with a relationship when that person's urge to follow it is great enough. He can miss you without wanting to get back together. He's human so he may miss the companionship and your personality and the fun you used to have but not want to be back in the relationship itself. I'm sorry that you're hurting Edited November 25, 2010 by cerridwen
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