tina7563 Posted November 25, 2010 Posted November 25, 2010 It's a question i have been wondering for a while now and i thought no better place to post it but here. So When guys go out to a club are they just looking for a hook up for that night? Or are some actually looking for more?
jimrich Posted November 25, 2010 Posted November 25, 2010 the real question is: what are YOU looking for?
Author tina7563 Posted November 25, 2010 Author Posted November 25, 2010 lol, Well i am not looking to meet someone and get married or anything, i am just looking for a genuine guy who is actually interested in me, not just sex. I feel like every guy i meet when i go out are just interested in sex and thats it. Its tiring trying to decipher what a guys intentions are every time i go out.
reservoirdog1 Posted November 25, 2010 Posted November 25, 2010 Start from the position that all guys you encounter are looking to hook up. That'll save you from disappointment. If you meet a guy you actually like, it's pretty simple: don't sleep with him that night. Give him your phone number or email, and tell him to call you sometime. Accept that there's a reasonable chance he WON'T contact you. If he doesn't, obviously he just wanted a hookup. No big loss. Next. And if he DOES call you, get together with him. And DON'T sleep with him that first time. Make him wait a few dates. If he just wants a hookup, he won't be willing to invest that time and effort. And you don't want something more with that kind of guy anyway. If he sticks around through a few dates, well done. You've successfully separated the wheat from the chaff.
ConstantCraving Posted November 25, 2010 Posted November 25, 2010 It's a question i have been wondering for a while now and i thought no better place to post it but here. So When guys go out to a club are they just looking for a hook up for that night? Or are some actually looking for more? Hooking up with a pretty girl is defintely the goal in that situation. Although if they don't succeed, its not the end of the world. Of course, that doesn't rule out the possibility of a long term relationship emerging from a casual hook up. It happens sometimes.
Leandro Posted November 26, 2010 Posted November 26, 2010 It's a question i have been wondering for a while now and i thought no better place to post it but here. So When guys go out to a club are they just looking for a hook up for that night? Or are some actually looking for more? I've never been to a club, well not yet. I'm going to go to actually have a good time and party. If I come home with a phone number or a girl then great, if not then oh well, no big deal.
Perhaps Posted November 26, 2010 Posted November 26, 2010 It's a question i have been wondering for a while now and i thought no better place to post it but here. So When guys go out to a club are they just looking for a hook up for that night? Or are some actually looking for more? [opinion] clubs are sleazy places where sleazy guys go to hit on drunk girls who know they'll get on hit by said sleazy guys. there's a reason clubs charge crazy cover for guys but let women in for free. usually, it's ***** guys looking to bed a drunk girl. any guy/girl who tells me he/she goes to a club to "dance" is an outright lier. there's no such thing as "dancing" at nightclubs anymore. it's just dry humping all night long. sleazy guy wins because he gets a piece of a**. girl wins because she feels wanted and "hot". i'm basing my opinion on experiences at nightclubs i've visited.. guys sure as hell don't go there to find wife-material. [/opinion]
Joe Normal Posted November 26, 2010 Posted November 26, 2010 Both. They will take what they can get, but if Ms Perfect comes along then I'm sure they won't say no to something more serious!
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