JungleLover Posted November 25, 2010 Posted November 25, 2010 Why bc a white guy wants to date a black girl? Wow, I thought it was 2010, gays in the military, gays preaching in church, and whites dating black.. If you had to put it into a percentage, how many readers who read this thread do you think has lost all respect for you?
Author alexlakeman Posted November 25, 2010 Author Posted November 25, 2010 If you had to put it into a percentage, how many readers who read this thread do you think has lost all respect for you? Oh, over 90%,lol... I guess they're not as open as I am in entertaining dating someone that's black.. So they're worse than me, b/c at least I am doing it or trying to.. And that's the beauty of the internet, you can sit behind your Ipad and post questions and scenarios that you might never ask your friends in person, plus you get dozens of feedback, good / bad, whatever... hence the beauty of a forum Would I ask any of these q's to my friends? Of course not.. Does my level of questions go a notch or two down in maturity at times vs the real me? Of course... lol But it opens a dialogue and pushes people's buttons it seems, if not they wouldn't open my threads. On to my question.. How about you? BTW, thanks for the bump
Always A Lesson Posted November 25, 2010 Posted November 25, 2010 Glad you came out of the bet, it wasn't fair to the lady. She deserves to be with somebody who's actually into her & for the right reasons, not with the wrong intentions....from the jump. Be careful who you play with, one day YOU could be on the other end of the bet. Life has a funny way of turning things around...... Such negative energy, playing with people! It must be nice to have been born ENTITLED.... OR THINK SO....
Feelin Frisky Posted November 25, 2010 Posted November 25, 2010 Haha, working upwards becoming, and now practicing as a corporate attorney. Soooo, basically dealing with slews of ass-backward older men like the OP who are baffled by the fact that a pretty, thin, young and <<gasp>> black, girl is their opposing counsel. You're a "real" black woman too--not one of those "asterisk blacks" like a "pakastanie" or "indian". Anyway, if this doofy thread got you to post and grace LS with your presence (ok, me), it was not a total bust.
Mme. Chaucer Posted November 25, 2010 Posted November 25, 2010 Oh, over 90%,lol... I guess they're not as open as I am in entertaining dating someone that's black.. So they're worse than me, b/c at least I am doing it or trying to.. Are you joking? Or serious? I mean with the above post, not the original one.
bentnotbroken Posted November 25, 2010 Posted November 25, 2010 Dear God keep my children away from people like this.
JungleLover Posted November 25, 2010 Posted November 25, 2010 And that's the beauty of the internet, you can sit behind your Ipad and post questions and scenarios that you might never ask your friends in person, plus you get dozens of feedback, good / bad, whatever... hence the beauty of a forum BTW, thanks for the bump Ooooohhhh don't worry. I'll continue to help bump this thread so that everyone can know of you. You just can't let a thread like this slip into oblivion. So tell us more about your racism, please. Ever injure anyone out of hate? Plan on setting this woman up or compromising her welfare in any way while you "date" her?
Author alexlakeman Posted November 25, 2010 Author Posted November 25, 2010 I'm not right now, but I did a few years back. I did not do it as part of a bet. ....That said... My guess is that were the ethnicities reversed most posters in this thread would take no issue with what your doing. So how long did you guys date? What made it crash? How was it with your friends and family. Yeah, people are generally hypocrities, b/c if the roles were reversed, then it would be OK or god forbid their son or daughter would be dating a black girl and they were right.. It's ok for some one else to do it, but not you nor those in your circle of friends or family. I bet if it happened to one of them or their friends, it would be "so so has been alone for a long time and is just desperete". vs "what a cute couple". Or I wonder how many hear have even hired a black person or a gay person. I have....
JungleLover Posted November 26, 2010 Posted November 26, 2010 Or I wonder how many hear have even hired a black person or a gay person. I have.... Actually, this is probably the longest running joke in the black community. They make fun of the racist who try to defend themselves by saying that they have black people live down the block from them or that they hired black people that work for them. Racists have never had much of a problem hiring minorities. As long as they were "subordinates" as you claimed in your original post. You know such as nannies, butlers, gardeners, grunt workers and such. Those with racist hearts cannot usually hide it. It just comes out. They can't help it. Lol. How long do you think it will be before the black woman you are dating figure you out? I say within 5 dates but probably very soon. Tell us more about your views on black people and where you think your dates with this black woman will lead you.
Sabali Posted November 27, 2010 Posted November 27, 2010 Wait until the OP finds out that there is a black US President. Man, is he going to be upset. Dude, it's almost 2011. Now, back in 1790, this would be huge. Blacks are voting and everything. Lol We're all pink on the inside. I am against pink-on-the-insides dating none pink-on-the-insides. Now, that's just wrong! Let me find any of my family members dating someone who is not pink on the inside and there will be hell to pay!
Star Gazer Posted November 27, 2010 Posted November 27, 2010 when on the phone or texting, you could not tell this was a black girl by the tone of voice, vocabulary, way she expresses her self, etc.. nothing to put her a notch down.. You would think she was white.. w....t....f....???
Mike B. Posted November 28, 2010 Posted November 28, 2010 w....t....f....??? Haha! I guess only whites know how to express themselves with good vocabulary in the dating world according to the OP.
drdarwin Posted November 28, 2010 Posted November 28, 2010 I agree. I think the OP sounds racist even though he seemingly made attempts not to (e.g., the whole thing about "sounding black [or white]"). I'm not attracted to females who are "ghetto" either, but I am unequally unattracted to "trailer trash", and being one or the other, educated, eloquent, etc. implies nothing about skin color, although it's very easy to stereotype based on those things. I think there would be a fundamental lack of respect in this relationship that would make it very difficult to sustain.
NYCGirly Posted November 28, 2010 Posted November 28, 2010 I feel sorry for the woman the OP is "dating". I hope she gets his number soon enough.
drdarwin Posted November 28, 2010 Posted November 28, 2010 Haha, working upwards becoming, and now practicing as a corporate attorney. Soooo, basically dealing with slews of ass-backward older men like the OP who are baffled by the fact that a pretty, thin, young and <<gasp>> black, girl is their opposing counsel. Congratulations! I think I would be more intimidated than baffled if you were my opposing counsel:p. I dated a Nigerian girl in med school. While I was definitely attracted to her beauty, I also had so much respect for everything she and her parents accomplished. They moved to the US several years ago with nothing after winning an immigration lottery, in order to avoid a raging ethnic war, and then had to deal with all the racist BS here. Despite that, they started their own successful business and sent all of their kids to college (and several to grad school). Anyway, congratulations on overcoming all of the obstacles and becoming so successful. If worse comes to worse, though, you can always take heart in the fact that the OP would consider "hiring" you:laugh:.
LexiB Posted November 28, 2010 Posted November 28, 2010 Congratulations! I think I would be more intimidated than baffled if you were my opposing counsel:p. I dated a Nigerian girl in med school. While I was definitely attracted to her beauty, I also had so much respect for everything she and her parents accomplished. They moved to the US several years ago with nothing after winning an immigration lottery, in order to avoid a raging ethnic war, and then had to deal with all the racist BS here. Despite that, they started their own successful business and sent all of their kids to college (and several to grad school). Anyway, congratulations on overcoming all of the obstacles and becoming so successful. If worse comes to worse, though, you can always take heart in the fact that the OP would consider "hiring" you:laugh:. Yeah, there's always that to be grateful for! Actually though, I meant to write "towards" not "upwards" (damn iPhone autocorrect). Didn't mean to imply that my road was any more complex than anyone else's, regardless of race. But thanks, nonetheless. Definitely feels good to be done.
nittanylion Posted November 28, 2010 Posted November 28, 2010 (edited) First of all, i am asian american. I always date asian but never white or black girl . When i was growing all, all my friends kept saying dont date black or white, just dated within your own kind. i guess it was enviorment when i grewup. Well, all my life, i dated mostly asian girls but as i get older i view the world differently. I have grown tired of dating asian girl, and dont like them because most of the them are materialistic, and snobbish. About 9 years ago, i started dating black girl who happen to be my teacher in college. She wanted a committed relationship at that time, and i told her i couldnt do it. After that didnt workout with the teacher. I started dating a white girl, and she wanted to have a committed relationship and i couldnt do it. So, i have gone back to asian girl and dated her for over 2 1/2 years and she cheated it on me. So that is over for good. No more asian girl. lol! Just recently, I dated a mix girl(father is white british/mother is black african). So if i couldnt settle for white or black girl now I am settled with mixed girl. LOL! This time for sure, i will give her a chance,and myself a chance. I love this girl. She is so beautiful inside and outside. I wouldnt allow anyone to sway me who i can or cant date even my friends or family dont approved . IOW, I dont give c rap what other people say about my prefrence of dating girl. I will date whoever i want as long as she makes me happy and be faithful to me. I guess you can say my attidude toward other race has changed through my life experience. As I grow older, i become more tolerant of other race and people in general no matter what color(black, white, yellow, red or green) they are. The moral of the story, just dated whoever can make you happy, and who care what other people think. Its non of their goddam business. Edited November 28, 2010 by nittanylion
Banega100 Posted November 28, 2010 Posted November 28, 2010 Fck me some people are backwards ! That 'notch down' thing alone is worthy of the moderators flexing their muscles is it not?
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