Red_S Posted November 24, 2010 Posted November 24, 2010 Ok so I'll give you some insight.. My last last girl I had, I had dated for 7 months straight, then she dumps me for another guy, 2 months later she wants me back(went NC the whole time), I take her back, I'll give someone a second chance sure... anyways 2 months later she dumps me out of the blue after "needing time to think" and then boom 2 days after new years, she shuts me out, has new bf in a few days. end of story. SO I thought man that sucks, but from the level of pain she caused me I seemed to get over her so quick! things were going great amd months later I was flying high in the sky of life, I was happy being single, happy to be alive. It (imo) attracted a girl into my life, this is girl number 2. Things started off great, summer went by, best summer of my life, we were crazy for eachother and I felt much better with her than I did with the last one. september rolls aroud, boom "I need time to think and see who I am" (the usual blah blah BS, this seems to be a trend) anyways we broke on good terms, I was hurt, not her tho, but we kept in touch, remained friends and were pretty close still........ Halloween comes along and we kissed for the first time in 2 months, she told me it made her miss me and she liked me still she told me (also note, 2 days before this she ended it with a guy she was seeing) So we start off again, it felt awesome, I felt great again. We were just like old times, intimate and everything but then after my fireschool grad, which she joined with me, I dropped her off at home, kissed her goodnight, goodbye (last goodbye, which I didnt know at the time). She didnt contact me all day friday, then she texts me sat morning saying sorry for not talking and she'll contact me after work, in the evening I texted her asking how she was she replies "great great just sitting down with my family for family night to watch a movie, I'll text you when I get in bed"..... 1AM rolls along and she texts "hey im in bed now! but goodnight :)" Im like ok... So around 2 am I notice on her facebook wall a guy wrote "I had fun last night :)" and man that hit me in the chest with so much force I confronted her immediately, but she responded in the morning with something along the lines of.. "hey i cant handle this anymore, what my heads doing to me, I dont know what i want im crying im so so sorry I need help, i feel like such a bad person, i cant be more than friends with you blah blah blah ill talk to you after work ok? :(" she also tells me that this guy was just a random guy who added her on facebook and started talking to her 2 days prior, asked if she wanted to hang out, she said sure come watch a movie, she said it was harmless. after work she doesnt talk to me, i saw on her facebook another thing from this guy "Baaabbeee:) :)" and i lost it, i texted her and she ended up acting cold, saying she doesnt wanna talk about anything" so yea... this was all on this past weekend, and today I find they're in a relationship... SO In the end, this girl ended up being the same as the other girl, almost down to the dot... Im wondering, how ****ing often does this **** happen? I feel gutted and like I can trust no one anymore.... It may seem like im not really asking anything... just basically posting another heart break story btw heres a tip... if a girl says she needs "space" or "time to think" or just ends it with a BULL**** excuse... there IS another guy, as much as you want to deny it..
Nkognito Posted November 25, 2010 Posted November 25, 2010 Okay what the hell.... This guy just had the same problem as me and my previous girlfriend had without the drinking problem. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t254741/ Then both your girls drop you around the same time. There is a pattern to this and its pretty odd.
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