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Attention all males: Your women hate it when you look at porn or go to strip clubs weither you thinks it's harmeless or not. In fact they rather jerk you off then have you do it yourself.

 

Attention all females: Your men hate it when you flirt or get teased by other males weither you think it's just being friendly or not. They also don't like that you use sex toys and would be happy if to have sex with you instead.

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Thanks for the PSA

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Attention all males: Your women hate it when you look at porn or go to strip clubs weither you thinks it's harmeless or not. In fact they rather jerk you off then have you do it.

LMAO! Who made you the authority? I've provided my boyfriend with a few different links to reputable pornsites that don't contain adware or viruses. In fact, I bookmarked them for him on his laptop since he's completely NOT computer savvy. And he really doesn't go to strip clubs because he thinks the women are only out to get his money and "strip clubs are lame, anyway," he always says. So that issue is moot - at least for me, anyway.

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Attention all females: Your men hate it when you flirt or get teased by other males weither you think it's just being friendly or not. They also don't like that you use sex toys and would be happy if to have sex with you instead.

Indeed, I have no problem with a woman having or using sex toys, as long as it's as well as sex with me not instead!

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I don't have a problem with my gf having sex toys and as for having sex with them instead of me; how about if she has sex with me and them at the same time?

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I can except that my boyfriend would use to porn to masterbate, can't say It would be great of thats ALL he did and we never had sex, or he was getting obsessed with it or obsessed with the women, thats not cool. My personal take on strip clubs is that if I'm in a committed relationship with someone, the I don't really think its respectful. Here in the UK, there aren't really many 'strip clubs' these days, in the sense how they used to be, its lap dancing. I wouldn't except my partner paying for another woman to take her clothes of and rub her tits in his face and for him to be sat there getting off on it. But that's my boundary, I've got some friends who don't mind their boyfriends having dances and others who do, so its a personal thing.

 

If he prefers to masterbate himself rather then me being in volved in sex, then I would say there was something seriously wrong with our sex life.

 

Same thing can be said for firting, sex toys etc. As with everything in life, it is about BALANCE. Spending all your time looking at porn, masterbating etc or using sex toys over your patner or being overly flirtatous with others might suggests something is not quite right.

 

The other thing to remember is that different people have different boundaries. Some couples have open relationships, some get off on watching their partner flirt with others. I don't consider there to be hard and fast rules when it comes to relationships.

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I can not speak for the entire U.S. as some would; (it is simply a damn big and extremely diverse country), but I have noticed in the few areas that I am familiar with, there are far less strip clubs than there was even 15 years ago. Now that may be do to an increase in on-line porn sights, I don't know.

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