thinkgal Posted November 24, 2010 Posted November 24, 2010 ok, so this last weekend was bad too. On Saturday I spoke with him early and he apologized for not calling the night before and told me he had to work on saturday (that same day) so he said it would be better to see each other on Sunday. I said ok..On sunday I didnt hear anyting so I wrote and asked if something was wrong and he told me no that he is just running around. so I ask if he was gonna pass by and he wrote to me that he will call me..and so time passed and he didnt...so I got so upset I wrote like 3 messages not at same time like hours in between and said how it seems like he may be pushing me away or to at least have the decency to give me a response and not leave me hanging. He did not respond at all that day. The next day he wrote to me and told me he was exchanging his phone so I asked to call me so we can have a talk , he said ok and didnt,, so with that I just decided not to call or text at all. That was monday morning, so everything was fine,, till Tuesday night , he called,, he called to apologize and said he was very sorry he didnt get back at me but he was soo busy with work and he knows he sh ould have called me but that his mind was so busy with work but that he's happy that hes getting more work in a way cuz he has more money now and is able to pay his bills (also mentioned, this year for xmas I will be able to get you a very nice gift). so in the conversation he mentioned all the work he was doing and about the new phone he got. I was you know still hurt and told him that he made me feel unimportant, that as busy as he was he should have found the time to like text saying hes busy or something and not leave me hanging , cuz is like leaving me up in the air not knowing. so that was the talk last night. I then earlier today text him telling him that it was good he called me but that I still feel hurt about what he did, etc. he wrote back saying sorry..I then wrote to him that I feel strange now and part of me wants to see him adn part of me doesnt. He replies that everything is fine so not to feel strange. I then text back saying that fine for him cuz he didnt get hurt, but cuz of what happened I feel maybe we should take some time away from each other. He replies "up to you" . so for me is like I guess it doesnt matter for him If i do or not?? My question is I told him i would call him later and let him know. I feel like i do need some time away, to clear my mind and really think of this, I hope he also thinks during this time and figures out if Im important enough. I just dont know how long of a break to take, do you tell the other person how long of a break it is???? or do u just say I'll call you when I wanna talk with you again??? I was thinking of like two weeks maybe???? how does this break thing work????? thanks:o
LostPup Posted November 25, 2010 Posted November 25, 2010 at some point in my last relationship i wanted to take a break. i suggested 2 weeks. just some time to clear my head and do some of the activities i enjoyed alone (ie. hiking, hunting, work on my scale models, general soul searching, etc). the whole idea greatly offended her and we never took a break.
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