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NC if you're Not dating?


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I have read so much about women and NC lately trying to make some sense and find some sort of resolution. This is a summary of my situation. I met this girl and started talking to her, but at the time I was interested and not really noticing her so we were just friends. However as I got to know her a bit better I started crushing and fell hard. We were at the stage of hanging out a lot and flirting but not actual bf/gf though we were close and together so much a lot of ppl assumed we were. So about 6 weeks ago we got into a huge fight. She went off and deleted me from her contacts. Now I have apologized and somewhat put myself out there to 'win' her back. I put 'win' in quotes, because like I said we weren't official. So I still want her back. Do you think NC will work even if we aren't dating or should I try another approach or am I just scr*wed?

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It depends what the fight was about. It had to have been something major.

 

If you have truly apologized and she's said nothing, you've got to leave it at that. Remember, the more you try to make it right the more you'll make it worse. You've said all you need to say. It sucks, but that's the way it is.

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