SilentVoice Posted November 24, 2010 Posted November 24, 2010 (edited) Why am I bothering with him? I have been talking to this guy off of OKC for about a two weeks. Both of our schedules have been crazy. I usually won't take this long to meet a guy. We have talked on the phone and texted like crazy(I mean crazy). Anyway I like what I know about him and he seems to like me as well. Then again he seems very interested sexually.Like asking for naughty pictures. I keep telling him it won't happen with me. I tell him he might as well move along and find a girl who is into that since I don't know him and he is wasting his time . Yet he tells me he likes me and yadda yadda yadda and calls me everyday. I seriously don't understand why he won't leave me alone . Should I just leave this one alone. I mean he doesn't do this all the time but when he does it is like "DUDE!". Sigh, what should I do? Edited November 24, 2010 by SilentVoice
refurb Posted November 24, 2010 Posted November 24, 2010 You've never met but he's asking for "naughty" pictures? That would worry me. Tell him you'd like to meet in the next week and if you can't, might as well walk away because he obviously doesn't have enough time for a relationship (assuming that's what you're looking for). RF
Author SilentVoice Posted November 24, 2010 Author Posted November 24, 2010 Yeah it does worry me. He didn't ask since I mentioned it to him .But him asking at all makes me feel really uneasy.If I don't meet him soon, I would I have to pass this one on by . Oh well. More fish in the sea. Thanks for the reply.
Author SilentVoice Posted November 24, 2010 Author Posted November 24, 2010 Believe I don't claim to be perfect. Some time we all need a little nudge. Internet or not. I wish I had an answer . I usually won't even bother in this situation ,but people do stupid **** sometime , you know. Anyways thanks for your reply.I really need to forget this one - thnx
ascendotum Posted November 24, 2010 Posted November 24, 2010 'Like asking for naughty pictures' I can definitely understand his motivation for wanting to see your raunchy side, however the guys I know who actually push for this with women on the www, their hobby is screwing not getting into relationships. I guess he must be pretty decent looking to get away with asking for nudie pics before even meeting you, and still be a contender. After you have sex, his crazy schedule will make it hard for him to have more time for you.
Author SilentVoice Posted November 25, 2010 Author Posted November 25, 2010 He didn't ask for nudes. I wasn't trying to be politically correct when i said naughty.He asked for clothed pictures,but then again i may just be naive. he is no different in looks than guys i usually date- so i don't think i am being in this situation. but i am being stupid For dealing with this. i just feel like i am always finding reasons to end things with guys. anyway i don't think this one is worth my time. i really do want a relationship but **** having a **** buddy was so much easier lol. thanks for your reply
Author SilentVoice Posted November 25, 2010 Author Posted November 25, 2010 haha, I would agree with you but i am no way painting this guy or any guy i have been with as the big bad guy. We are just two people who are obviously looking for different things. I wish I did have his exact wording but it was over the phone. I know it was a general comment but my conscious is fine since i see nothing with a fbuddy situation. I been in one previously with a great guy. With whom i am now good friends with. Seriously if i wanted someone to just clean my pipes I wouldn't need to date them. What will be the point?
true2010 Posted November 25, 2010 Posted November 25, 2010 Asking for dirty pics before meeting you means the guy is either a douche bag or doesn't respect you much or both.
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