urdestiny Posted November 24, 2010 Posted November 24, 2010 I am at a loss of what to do at this point. I have been sleeping with my neighboor for over a month now. We hang out and talk as well as sleep together. He always cuddles with me after sex and straight thru the night, he txts me all the time, when I was sick he brought me orange juice and cuddled with me for 2 nights, he even constantly asks if i'm sleeping with someone else and always questions if im sleeping with my guy friends, he even gets annoyed when I kick him out after sex. About 2 weeks ago he told me I was amazing and down to earth and that he loved spending time with me but didn't want a gf because his job takes him away for 3 weeks at a time. I told him I didn't want him to be my bf and that to me that would sound like the perfect relationship. I don't think I'm imagining things or being a dumb girl about all this. I'm at a total loss of what to do or say at this point. I feel like he doesn't have the right to ask if im sleeping with people and get jelous when he is the one stating he doesn't want a gf. I'm not wanting this to be a serious relationship right now I would just love a little insight as to what to do. Not sure if I should say something to him about all of it, or even say that I would like us to be only sleeping with eachother. Someone please help, I'm not sure what to think or even do anymore.
Brandi 2 Posted November 24, 2010 Posted November 24, 2010 I think you should be careful because he wants to get serious in my opinion. Sex is suppost to mean something other than immediate pleasure. Hope things work out for you:)
Author urdestiny Posted November 24, 2010 Author Posted November 24, 2010 I think you should be careful because he wants to get serious in my opinion. Sex is suppost to mean something other than immediate pleasure. Hope things work out for you:) What makes you think he wants to get serious? I don't have an issue with that down the road but right now I would just love a better idea of what exactly it is we are doing.
xpaperxcutx Posted November 24, 2010 Posted November 24, 2010 What makes you think he wants to get serious? I don't have an issue with that down the road but right now I would just love a better idea of what exactly it is we are doing. A person who doesn't want a relationship wouldn't think about this. Booty C. minded- sex, sex, sex. Relationship minded- sex, intimacy, exclusivity, etc. So what exactly do you want?
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