Hoffman Posted November 24, 2010 Posted November 24, 2010 I am in my mid-twenties, and I want to describe my most recent relationship because I'm interested in how it will be interpreted. I worked in a private school for a while. There was a teacher there who was just slightly older than me. Straight away, I found her very attractive, but for months I didn't do anything about it. As time passed, I noticed she started flerting with me. I started developing feelings her too. I really began to like her. As the flerting really became intense, at one point I asked her out. A few days later, we met and, after a few drinks, we started kissing. I really enjoyed it, but she was nervous and hesitant throughout the evening. After being persuaded, she finally came clean: she had previously been in a six month relationship with my older brother! I had not known that, but after some thinking, I decided to try it out with her regardless. I made the choice because I had always really disliked my brother; he was always nasty to me when I was younger, and he was never there for me as an older brother would be expected to be. That and the fact that he was abroad, studying. I know the saying, "bros before hoes", but I honestly didn't feel like I owed him such a sacrifice. She, on the other hand, had the job because he found it for her. We dated for five months until we had to end it, because now I am abroad, studying. The relationship was wonderful, we got on really well, and we had strong feelings for each other. Very few people were aware what was going on. I just want to know whether any of you think I'm a bad person. Or she, for that matter. Should I try to hook up with her again when I return, or should I just let it fade away and move on?
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