Pokemon Posted November 25, 2010 Posted November 25, 2010 I'd say if you're actually thinking so hard of whether or not to tell her.. just do it. However, I thought about it many times myself but my answer has always been cut and dry - NO. That's because I don't want to be held responsible for breaking them up and having to carry it on my conscience for the rest of my life. If you do it, let them deal with the consequences and pick up the pieces themselves. After that, you SHOULD move on. He also won't take you back after that, you know? They will probably hate you too. They could also bond together stronger after you make them a wreck. But whatever it is, if you do it, you have to just walk away after or you will just look pathetic. I still think you should be directing your anger at him, not the poor, trampled-upon woman. Have some compassion for her, she's already been f*cked over by him... and if she's inviting more pain in her life, let it be! Their marriage is screwed up already; the best thing you can do for you is to walk away and get better to get back at him!
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