tb24 Posted November 23, 2010 Posted November 23, 2010 I broke up with her 3 weeks ago. We've spoken occasionally since. Firstly and very geekily, me and my ex both play World of Warcraft. Obviously we used to play together, we're in the same guild so still "see" each other online although we've not really talked much in-game. Now NC is a good idea but we both have friends in the guild (real life and online), neither of us want to leave or stop playing but we will inevitably interact with each other from time to time. I'm not sure this is a good idea . Secondly, on saturday one of both my and her favourite local bands is playing. I really want to go. Been looking forward to it for months, I know she'll want to go, and probably will. She's probably asking this same question herself. I suppose my question is, what should I do? I don't want to change my life just to avoid her and I'm sure she feels the same way! We ended fairly maturely. There was no screaming/shouting and we are still very civil, but seeing her makes it hard to move on and every time i speak to her i wonder if i did the right thing. Any advice/suggestions?
Brandi 2 Posted November 24, 2010 Posted November 24, 2010 I broke up with her 3 weeks ago. We've spoken occasionally since. Firstly and very geekily, me and my ex both play World of Warcraft. Obviously we used to play together, we're in the same guild so still "see" each other online although we've not really talked much in-game. Now NC is a good idea but we both have friends in the guild (real life and online), neither of us want to leave or stop playing but we will inevitably interact with each other from time to time. I'm not sure this is a good idea . Secondly, on saturday one of both my and her favourite local bands is playing. I really want to go. Been looking forward to it for months, I know she'll want to go, and probably will. She's probably asking this same question herself. I suppose my question is, what should I do? I don't want to change my life just to avoid her and I'm sure she feels the same way! We ended fairly maturely. There was no screaming/shouting and we are still very civil, but seeing her makes it hard to move on and every time i speak to her i wonder if i did the right thing. Any advice/suggestions? When people are over a relationship they usually don't communicate unless they absolutely have to, I don't think you two are done. Go for it and see what happens, do you have anything else happening anyway!
Author tb24 Posted November 24, 2010 Author Posted November 24, 2010 Not gonna happen . I'm not interested in getting back with her. I just dont want to change my life in order to avoid her. We'll inevitably run into each other from time to time, I just need to be able to cope with that.
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