rebeccajones Posted November 23, 2010 Posted November 23, 2010 Say that you had time apart (months of NC) then you both agreed to give it another shot how do you start over? Anyone have an idea? I'm thinking you have to take it slow not communicate constantly but I'm not completely sure. Anyone here successful in a second chance relatioship? The site does not have a great search feature!
deuces Posted November 23, 2010 Posted November 23, 2010 I'm struggling with the same thing. Wish I knew too. Although, even though she wants me back, I haven't agreed to give it a go (even if I want to) because I am scared as hell! I know we need a new start but how can we do that if we don't solve our past issues. And if we bring our past issues up, then that isn't much of a brand new start then. It's so frustrating.
skydiveaddict Posted November 23, 2010 Posted November 23, 2010 After she dumped me in the middle of a war, I would like to say no, I wouldnt take her back, but if she walked back into my life right now, I don't know if I would have the strength to say no.
Author rebeccajones Posted November 23, 2010 Author Posted November 23, 2010 (edited) I kind of begged him back I feel. After my emotional breakdown we had a few fun days. We are now back to our separate lives, back home. I just don't want to have to keep asking him out. Although we did agree to get together. Should I wait for him to communicate? What if he changed his mind? Maybe I should wait. I hate to be the aggressor. Edited November 23, 2010 by rebeccajones
Author rebeccajones Posted November 23, 2010 Author Posted November 23, 2010 Dueces I guess you can take it real slow. If you both want it. Hope it works out for you.
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