frustrated rant

[Titania22]

Hey Guys,

 

Just a little annoyed right now. I made an arrangement to see 'the guy I had sex with a couple of weeks ago' today. And he ended up flaking, but not before the time we were due to meet, about 30mins after we were supposed to meet. 30mins I had spent driving around his block, and texting and calling, no response, after he initiated with a text 'are we still on for today?'

 

So basically I am annoyed because I spent hours cleaning my place (starting yesterday), then got ready, then spent 30mins sweating in my car, and if he had told me sooner, I could have gone to the gym and done a class. But with the delay, not only was I in a bad mood (so him cancelling had actually become a good thing), I didn't have enough time to go home change and make it to the gym.

 

If this is what seeing young guys is like, I am starting to understand why all my friends think I am crazy to want them. Unfortunately I think it will take a few more of these experiences before I will be ready to kick the habit.

 

Thanks for reading. I feel somewhat better having shared my frustration. I am so glad I didn't watch any porn to get myself really in the mood, or I would be ready to punch something.

[BobSacamento]

The key to this:

 

- "I made an arrangement..."

[Titania22]

In light of the fact that I am still feeling grumpy and sexually frustrated I pose this question.

 

Anyone else feel that we spend too much time (energy and money) trying to get laid, and not enough time actually getting laid?

 

(Somehow I feel that I wouldn't be so frustrated if I hadn't actually had sex 2weeks ago. Like sexual droughts are easier to endure then sporadic sex. In that way being in a relationship was no better for me, as sex was sporadic, the object of affection was always present to serve as a source of sexual frustration, and I had to deal with all the relationship stuff too.)

[musemaj11]

So r u dating him or u r just banging him?