mgene15 Posted November 22, 2010 Posted November 22, 2010 So I'm over a month now of NC, and I'm beating myself up thinking about "why the hell hasn't my ex called me? It's like a roller-coaster of emotions. One day I'll have the screw it mindset and i'll be happy then the next day i'll dream of her and all the good time we had. It's tough. But for people that got dumped by there ex girlfriend and went into NC, does it get any better after a month?? I no it's different for other people but at what point does this torture I'm going thru stop? I still can't stop thinking about her and its sickening. So for people who have done the NC for over a month tell me tips, because I recently wrote down everything i wanted to tell her, in a journal but i doubt i'll send it to her one day. thanks... p.s. It's the holidays and it really sucks not having a female there for u because last year at this time I was google-ee eyed and was happy as can be :/
Leandro Posted November 23, 2010 Posted November 23, 2010 I've been in NC for 11 weeks now. I still have sad days, but they're not as bad as the ones during the first month. After a while you'll start to realize that they probably wont ever break NC and that you really just need to move on, but let time take care of that.
Brandi 2 Posted November 23, 2010 Posted November 23, 2010 So I'm over a month now of NC, and I'm beating myself up thinking about "why the hell hasn't my ex called me? It's like a roller-coaster of emotions. One day I'll have the screw it mindset and i'll be happy then the next day i'll dream of her and all the good time we had. It's tough. But for people that got dumped by there ex girlfriend and went into NC, does it get any better after a month?? I no it's different for other people but at what point does this torture I'm going thru stop? I still can't stop thinking about her and its sickening. So for people who have done the NC for over a month tell me tips, because I recently wrote down everything i wanted to tell her, in a journal but i doubt i'll send it to her one day. thanks... p.s. It's the holidays and it really sucks not having a female there for u because last year at this time I was google-ee eyed and was happy as can be :/ Ya, I here you, it sucks. The break up and holidays have me depressed, but there is nothing I can do and no way to change it. I have to live with it now. So many stops and starts, just can't do it anymore:mad:
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