aznboiritehurr Posted March 10, 2004 Posted March 10, 2004 Background info about me: im a sophmore in highschool Turn-ons: asians, *im asian too, what can i say*, decent looks, shares same interests i do, kind, honest, ez to talk to, IS CRAZY ABOUT ME Turn-offs: Smokers, drinkers, bitchy, gold digger, slut, cheater, wears too much makeup, flirts way too much *good thing, and a bad thing, she might lead you on* Alright, there is this one girl * lets name her, Trace* i liked for a month now... and well NOW im trying to get over with her, i'll start telling you the whole story: A friend of mine invited me to this chinese lantern festival... and met her friends... one of them is Trace... we all socialized, until the festival was over... i called my bro to pick me up from the festival *im only 15, still cant drive yet* and the people were packing up the whole place, dismantling the chairs, etc. Thats when i talked to Trace for the first time.. couple days later, we started hangin out at the malls with her friends and such, just being friends... the 3-4 time i met her, we went to the movies , and we started to talk alot, flirt a lil.. but the 5th time, me and Trace went to Watch a school play, and she wanted to invite a guy-friend she hasnt seen for 4+ years, and it so happens that her friend is also my friend... Them 2 have been talking online a lot, especially flirting.... From then on, i had a feeling that she is starting to have a crush on this guy *was i jealous? a lil bit* that was the last time i saw her, couple days after the play, i found out that her school has a Tolo, and guess who she asked out? the guy friend.... now i feel like ****, im starting to think that she possibly is just leading me on, so im trying to get over with Trace, and im trying to not talk to any of her friends and the "guy-friend" i dont want it to happen like this, i feel like a loser, but now its up to you guys to help me fix this problem.. Not only this, ive had tons of similar problems like this in the past... im getting scared that perhaps Every girl i get a crush on will never be with me! Am i too early to start quitting? Should i leave it as it is?
ASDFJKL Posted March 10, 2004 Posted March 10, 2004 Unfortunately, to me, it doesn't sound like "Trace" is very interested in you. All of the flirting could be a sign of her just being a naturally flirty girl, or it could be a sign that she is/was interested in you somewhat. But, it seems to me that she isn't/wasn't interested in you quite enough to be more than friends with you. I think that she is too wrapped up in this other guy at this point. The best thing to do is to just drop it and stop trying to pursue a relationship with this girl. If you are fine with just being her friend, go for it! And, no, you are not doomed. Quit feeling upset that the girls you have tried to pursue don't like you in a more-than-friends way. When you least expect it, someone will come your way that will like you just as much, or more, as you like them. Hang in there.
Hannah Posted March 10, 2004 Posted March 10, 2004 Maybe you should give it up. Im your age and i do what this girl does i flirt with my guy mates because i think or well i know they dont like me more then friends, so its just fun. Your girl doesn't know this so maybe why dont you tell her or stop bein as friendly or just stop being flirty and see how she takes it. Maybe she does really like you but because she doesn't know that you like her so she doesnt want to spoil your friendship or to make tension between you both. This may be why she has decided to find someone else. Talk to her you are friends so she will understand. i hope that helps you
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