watshername Posted November 22, 2010 Posted November 22, 2010 We were very happy. Neither of us did anything wrong. We just weren't working/ aren't in the same place. I was going to uni, he was starting his own business. He ended it, I know he did what he thought was best and I understand his actions now. I was so upset at first really really heartbroken and I know he was finding it hard too. For two months I did whatever I could to try to change his mind. Nothing worked. Then one day I realised this was it. I needed to accept and move on. I still love him and care about him so much. I know he still cares about me and really wants me in his life. I still want him in my life. I just want to know if it's actually possible to be friends with someone you thought you'd spend the rest of your life with? I don't really know how I feel 100%, I'm very confused. Before, I would have got back with him within a heartbeat but I'm not so sure now. I don't think I would, I think we split for the right reasons. But at the same time I still hold the tiniest bit of hope that one day he will want to be with me. I just love him too much to lose him out of my life forever. He's prone to depression and thats part of the reason why we split, because he was upsetting me with how he handled it and he thinks I deserve to be treated better (this is what he feels, not me). How do I knw if I've truely accepted that it's over? I think I have but I'm worried I'm just covering up my feelings. I'm at the point where I can sort of start to see myself with someone new and def in the near future be with someone again.
Trovador Posted November 23, 2010 Posted November 23, 2010 How do I knw if I've truely accepted that it's over? I guess when you are totally willing to let your ex go... and it's no game, no tactic nor plan to get something in exchange... when you are convinced that there is no future with them and you don't want any future with them... when you could contact them and you won't do it because, godamn, you, while not being angry or sad, are not just interested anymore... And Destiny is so mysterious that when you have reached that point, your ex sure wants another shot (at) with you...
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