omoge Posted November 22, 2010 Posted November 22, 2010 So I got a message Saturday morning on match.com from a guy who wrote the night before expressing his interest. I responsed and included my phone number. He called that afternoon and we spoke briefly and he said he'd love to go out the following night. I agreed and he said he'd call the next day to figure out a good time. Well that was supposed to be today. I text him in the morning just saying "good morning." He responded around 1 in the afternoon saying he'd just arrived home from work and was going to sleep. He's a doctor with a demanding schedule, so I didn't take offense to the late response. Anyway, I was on match.com around 4 and it said he was online, which I found perculiar. Around 7:45 I text him saying, "Guessing you overslept." About 15 minutes later he sent a text saing he'd just woken up. I didn't respond. 45 minutes later, he sent another text apologizing. I responded with, "Well have a good week. Ttyl." I think he's playing me. My friend is advising me to give him a chance if he calls or texts again, but I'm leading towards ignoring him completely. I'm a bit jaded after recent experienes with men. From the outside looking in, do you think I'm being unfair, or should I listen to my gut?
alexlakeman Posted January 5, 2011 Posted January 5, 2011 Wow, an old thread... anyway... If he's on BB, he might not be logging off "correctly" from the dating sight and appear to be online.. I see it all the time; ie I log in at 4 am my time, and see 30 women online, no way, lol... It happens with my bb as well, I might just flip screens and forget I am logged in, so it seems I am on all day and night, lol.. He's a Dr, so you know he has to have a BB (blackberry).
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