gjpax1 Posted November 22, 2010 Posted November 22, 2010 so i met this girl on the last day of one of my classes, shes really cool, we have very similar sense of humor and a lot of other things in common. We talked for awhile probably about 45mins. she needed a ride home so i drove her to her place, she is a salsa dancer and offered to teach me some lessons up at her place, but i declined because i had to go to work (little dissapointed). anyways when i asked for her # she unhesitantly gave me her phone so that i could type my #, so at first it seemed like everything was going great. The next night (we are college students) our college had a concert that by coincidence we were both going to. I than offered her to pregame (drink) with me and some friends before the concert. (only way you can have fun with crappy music at a place like that) anyways maybe that was a mistake idk. She declinded said she was going to sleep before the concert (which i believed because she told me she was going to have a long day), than at the concert i got ahold of her via text, pretty much saying i wanted to meet up with her. She told me where she was very vaguely so i couldn't really find her, than before i knew it she said she left with some friends. So my question is it seems like the 2 times i've talked to this girl i've had complete opposite signals. 1st time everything seemed to go very good, the 2nd time it seemed almost opposite, should i be worried about this or am i just thinking too much? I would think she would want to at least say hi,(at the concert) but that wasn't the case it seemed like she didn't really care. we go on Thanksgiving break this week, i told her that i'd like to get to know her a little more before we leave for break, (she seems okay with it but not overly excited or anything). The problem is due to work i am all tied up before the break, would it be a mistake to wait until after thanksgiving break? suggestions?
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