love00 Posted November 21, 2010 Posted November 21, 2010 (edited) Ive been seeing someone for the past 4 months. Both of us came out of a long relationship that ended badly. We haven't classified this relationship as anything, I guess you could call it friends with benefits but not in the sleezy way. I care about her very much, but I feel that I should date other people since she was the first person Ive been involved with since my divorce. Ive talked to her about this and she is understanding. My question is, how do I date other people and still keep our relationship on good terms? I know I cant have my cake and eat it to, so how do other people handle this? Ive always been in committed relationship with the previous woman Ive been with. Do I stop seeing her, calling, txting, etc? Yea, im confused... Edited November 21, 2010 by love00
xpaperxcutx Posted November 21, 2010 Posted November 21, 2010 Well, do you want to date other people or do you want to sleep with other people? It really comes down to what you want from her and the terms the two of you settled on.
Star Gazer Posted November 21, 2010 Posted November 21, 2010 Do I stop seeing her, calling, txting, etc? No, you don't just STOP seeing her, calling, texting, etc. You just start seeing, calling, and texting someone else (or multiple people)... while also seeing, calling, texting her. Don't voluntarily tell her you're doing this, but be honest if she asks.
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