cutieh Posted November 20, 2010 Posted November 20, 2010 Is my friend jealous of me? When guys try to talk to me she always butts in the conversation and yells and screams at the top of her lungs. It embarrasses me. Or she will jump in front of us and ask me to watch her things so I don;t have to go anywhere and the guy can notice her. Also, one time when I was talking to this guy and he was about to sit down next to me and she screamed i'm sitting here and she took his chair. He was scared of this behavior of hers. It seems like she tries to push men away from me that are interested in me. Do you think this is her being jealous and if so How do I handle it.
BklynGuy Posted November 24, 2010 Posted November 24, 2010 Absolutely. Your friend is jealous or an attention whore. Watch this person..it will most likely get worse with time. Watch it! I have had jealous friends like this before....move away before it turns bad.
Barby Posted November 24, 2010 Posted November 24, 2010 Absolutely. Your friend is jealous or an attention whore. Watch this person..it will most likely get worse with time. Watch it! I have had jealous friends like this before....move away before it turns bad. ^this....^ She sounds like she is def trying to get the attention for herself...be it that she's jealous or that she is an attention whore...either way it isn't good. Girls like that tend to be the ones you can't trust around your men...IMO:) As far as what you should do....I think honesty would be best....not saying "hey I think you're jealous" but just let her know her behavior is embarrassing and is pushing you away! Who wants a friend that you have to feel like you're always in competition with?
Butterflying Posted November 24, 2010 Posted November 24, 2010 She's not friendly at all. Anyone who gets in the way of something you want (doesn't matter if it's good for you or not) does not care about you. We don't need these kind of people in our lives. The only thing they do is teach us how to appreciate and value true friendship when we have it. Kick this B*tch to the curb and learn from this experience. Unless of course if you like feeling this way (insecure, confused, disrespected, embarassed, ect.) then keep her around.
Author cutieh Posted December 5, 2010 Author Posted December 5, 2010 Thank you all for your responses. I am currently going to not call her anymore and ignore her phone calls. I tried to tell her but she denied that she wants attention. Now she gave out my number to one of her friends without my permission.
sgcrichi Posted December 9, 2010 Posted December 9, 2010 Friendship is great achievement in life, I think you and your friend need to talk on it, there is always solution,I you both ignore each other it will effects on your relation.
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