poorguy Posted November 20, 2010 Posted November 20, 2010 Together for 3 years broke up 5 months ago. She got a new BF right away and they live together now. I stopped talking to her alltogether until maybe a month ago. She either will text or email me every few days. Sometimes to tak about our relationship and other times to graphically talk about how amazing our sex life was or something just random. OK so stupid question- Last night she texted me to tell me a car almost hit her while she was driving up my street just now. I was home. I live on a very short street that she has NOOOO reason to even be on??? Why's that???
Fern Posted November 20, 2010 Posted November 20, 2010 Because she's realising the grass isn't actually greener. Don't let her play you. Until she comes back on bended knee begging forgiveness don't kid yourself she wants you back. Whatever problems were there before with her - they're still there. She dived straight into a new relationship and has worked on NOTHING, has learnt NOTHING, has changed NOTHING about herself. Proceed with caution.
Author poorguy Posted November 20, 2010 Author Posted November 20, 2010 Anybody else??.. I know it's sort of a stupid question-but the ride by my house and then let me know about it part just seems a little bit strange
carhill Posted November 20, 2010 Posted November 20, 2010 People lie. Ex'es are Ex'es for a reason. Ex her. Change your phone number. Bye-bye
Forever2011 Posted November 20, 2010 Posted November 20, 2010 Fern called it. This girl is nutty and not thinking clearly at all. You have to watch out. The fact she is bouncing all around shows severe mental instability and that she is very out of touch with reality. I know after all that time you want to make it work, and I know it's beyond hell to try to start over again without her, but sometimes the best rewards in life are ones that take the most work. In fact, often times that is the case.
Author poorguy Posted November 20, 2010 Author Posted November 20, 2010 Believe it or not she's not really crazy or anything like that. She's 23 and i'm 33. She got involved in the party scene a little more than I care for so I let her go. I was tired of worrying about her because some of her friends were just loosers. She has also been complaining about how the new guy has a temper and is abusive (verbally) and how much they fight all of the time. On her behalf she does work close to my house-just no need to drive down my street out of the hundred other streets...Not that I care if she does-it's a free country
carhill Posted November 20, 2010 Posted November 20, 2010 If things are that bad with her 'new guy' and she was 'driving down your street', she could've just stopped at your house. See my prior response. Men tend to want to believe breathless words spoken by a woman between the sheets or on the telephone. Actions. Look at actions. Good luck
Forever2011 Posted November 20, 2010 Posted November 20, 2010 Well she sounds pretty crazy. Plus, people who enjoy partying a lot usually have some deep baggage that comes along with it. (I.e, sheltered growing up, abused, cheated on, etc). If she jumps to another guy immediately, guess what-- that qualifies someone as not being mentally stable.
Gdunkman Posted November 20, 2010 Posted November 20, 2010 I have a feeling like I heard this story before. Does your ex have a Blackberry phone? We had a thread some days ago here and the story was very similar.
coltsfan1 Posted November 20, 2010 Posted November 20, 2010 she misses you yes, but not enough to eat her pride and come crawling back, you really need to quit talking to her she is just stringing you along incase the GUY SHE LIVES WITH doesn't work out!!! cut her loose then she what she does!!
Dorian85 Posted November 20, 2010 Posted November 20, 2010 (edited) Together for 3 years broke up 5 months ago. She got a new BF right away and they live together now. I stopped talking to her alltogether until maybe a month ago. She either will text or email me every few days. Sometimes to tak about our relationship and other times to graphically talk about how amazing our sex life was or something just random. OK so stupid question- Last night she texted me to tell me a car almost hit her while she was driving up my street just now. I was home. I live on a very short street that she has NOOOO reason to even be on??? Why's that??? Classic bait technique. Sorry to sound blunt. But thats what it is. Good for you for not taking the bait. She couldn't exactly come right out and say " hey, im on your street right now...wana hang?" to most people, that would come off as her wanting to come back to you, and a lot of people can't swallow their pride enough to bring themselves to do that. But she just threw it out there that she was in your area....not really inferring anything to you directly, but just letting you know that fact..... seems pretty fishy to me man. Edited November 20, 2010 by Dorian85
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