grecian Posted November 20, 2010 Posted November 20, 2010 I would like some feedback especially from guys on this one. Is it ok to kiss the guy on the first date if I like him a lot and feel comfortable with him or should I save it for second date even though I really wanna kiss him?? Does the waiting increase the excitement of having another date or it doesn't really make a difference??
OceanGirl Posted November 20, 2010 Posted November 20, 2010 I always kiss a guy on the first date if I am attracted to him and things are going well. I even initiate the kiss most times but I pick the right moment, usually when we are saying good bye and he is kind looking at me and hesitating. I usually just go for the light kiss on the lips but if a guy opens his mouth (and in most cases they do lol) it turns into a longer kiss and sometimes even a hot make out session. I don't think kissing him can hurt and if you turn him on it will increase your chances of getting the second date. To me, a date is not a date without a kiss.
EasyHeart Posted November 20, 2010 Posted November 20, 2010 I would like some feedback especially from guys on this one. Is it ok to kiss the guy on the first date if I like him a lot and feel comfortable with him or should I save it for second date even though I really wanna kiss him?? Does the waiting increase the excitement of having another date or it doesn't really make a difference??I think it's okay (especially if you "really wanna kiss him"!), but I don't expect it. Personally, I would very rarely kiss a woman on a first date. A lot depends on how well I know her; if I've known her a while before we date, I'd be more inclined to want to kiss her, but if we just met I doubt I'd have much interest in a kiss since I barely know her. A few times, when I've really, really liked someone and was pretty sure it would turn into a relationship, I've intentionally delayed a first kiss so I could set it up to be in some memorable location. It's not terribly romantic to reminisce about your first kiss in the parking ramp. Either way, it wouldn't affect whether I ask her out again; I've usually decided that long before the end of the date. (Though I suppose if she leaped across the table and kissed me half-way through the appetizers, that might have some effect! ) I'm a big fan of following your instincts. If you really wanna kiss him, smooch away!!! If you don't feel like it, don't. I don't think a kiss (especially a first one) should be calculated.
veggirl Posted November 20, 2010 Posted November 20, 2010 Personally, I would not (as a woman) initiate a first kiss on a first date. If he initiated and I was into it, I would reciprocate, but even if I was totally into him, I wouldn't initiate. I would just feel uncomfortable.
carhill Posted November 20, 2010 Posted November 20, 2010 Guy datapoint..... with a heretofore stranger, it would be a bit odd to have such an expression of affection on a first date. If a person with whom circumstances have 'changed', for example a long-time friend with whom one has rapport and circumstances have allowed 'dating' to happen, then IMO it would be different, as affection and familiarity are already there, just having been expressed differently in the past. Disclaimer: I've been manipulated enough by the kisses of married women to have a somewhat cynical viewpoint on this subject.
Crazy Magnet Posted November 20, 2010 Posted November 20, 2010 If the date is the first time I've met someone then I usually don't but I will if I want to. If I have spent significant time with the person or know them a little prior to the date, oh heck yes!!!!! But then I LOVE kissing guys so.....I'm more inclined to kiss than to not kiss.
NoLongerSad Posted November 20, 2010 Posted November 20, 2010 Is it ok to kiss the guy on the first date if I like him a lot and feel comfortable with him Green light
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