NoLongerSad Posted November 20, 2010 Posted November 20, 2010 I get that the idea of a soul connection sounds stupid. However, I'm the type of person who would remain at the least ambivalent until I had proof one way or another. Especially if I heard that from another human being and had not experienced it myself. I would be all questions. I would not be all judgement. Hey, I sound almost reasonable! The only "soul connection" I want to have with a cheater is the bottom of my shoe and their rear end.
WTFBBQ Posted November 20, 2010 Posted November 20, 2010 Some here must have an amazing connection with Loveshack since they are posting all day and all night every day and every night. I have an amazing connection with my doggie who is my soulmate who finishes all of my sentences. I've never been in a relationship as good as this before.
jennie-jennie Posted November 20, 2010 Posted November 20, 2010 (edited) "I knew it must be true love because he let me suck him off in his pick up truck in the parking lot at lunchtime." This kind of line I have never seen on LS. Perhaps it only exists in your imagination? Edited November 20, 2010 by jennie-jennie
jennie-jennie Posted November 20, 2010 Posted November 20, 2010 I never had a cat cheat on me, honey. Yeah, I guess it is better to play it safe.
anne1707 Posted November 20, 2010 Posted November 20, 2010 Yeah, I guess it is better to play it safe. Now whose being catty?
jennie-jennie Posted November 20, 2010 Posted November 20, 2010 Some here must have an amazing connection with Loveshack since they are posting all day and all night every day and every night. Nah, I think it is more about having an amazing connection with your computer and taking time off to relax every now and then by checking in on LS.
bentnotbroken Posted November 20, 2010 Posted November 20, 2010 That's really sad, if the only strong connections you people have experienced are with your cats... No wonder you have trouble understanding true love. Maybe if the person she had a connection with was a lying cheater, she would prefer the cat. If the only way someone could show true love is to lie, gas light and hurt someone else....that's some shiggidity most of us could do without.
scatterd Posted November 20, 2010 Posted November 20, 2010 my thigh bones connected to my knee bone my my knee bones connected to my shin bone my shin bones connected to my ankle bone and these are the laws of the world.
LucreziaBorgia Posted November 20, 2010 Posted November 20, 2010 It is easy to say you have an amazing connection when your connection doesn't come with any realistic or daily responsibilities. I had the 'amazing connection' plenty of times: from the comfort and reliability of relationships I never intended to leave. A lot of time 'amazing' means no more than - 'not saddled by day to day responsibilities or boredom' But... nine times out of ten, regardless of how 'amazing' it is: try to relieve them of those responsibilities or boredom and you'll find you'll only manage to do it when you pry it out of their cold, dead (and still married) fingers. Yeah, yeah... some do leave but if the marriage is bearable and comfortable, the chances of being that truly amazing person for you are near nil despite all the 'soulmate' and 'amazing' stuff.
Steadfast Posted November 20, 2010 Posted November 20, 2010 The phrase that flew up my ass sideways was: 'These things happen'. Like, the cheating was some kind of cosmic manifestation, an accident, or some other occurrence otherwise out of one's control. Mixed up logic pisses me off. Then again, These things happen might simply point to the fact that cheating happens in marriages. And now it has happened in yours.
whichwayisup Posted November 20, 2010 Posted November 20, 2010 That's really sad, if the only strong connections you people have experienced are with your cats... No wonder you have trouble understanding true love. Oh good grief, LIGHTEN UP JJ! It was a joke! The tone of this thread is for fun. Bolded part - Was that really necessary to say? Does it make you feel better to say stuff like this?
Woggle Posted November 20, 2010 Posted November 20, 2010 The phrase that flew up my ass sideways was: 'These things happen'. Like, the cheating was some kind of cosmic manifestation, an accident, or some other occurrence otherwise out of one's control. Mixed up logic pisses me off. Then again, These things happen might simply point to the fact that cheating happens in marriages. And now it has happened in yours. I fully agree with this. I can't stand when cheaters act like it was something that happened to them rather than something they themselves did.
jennie-jennie Posted November 20, 2010 Posted November 20, 2010 Oh good grief, LIGHTEN UP JJ! It was a joke! The tone of this thread is for fun. Bolded part - Was that really necessary to say? Does it make you feel better to say stuff like this? I take it you didn't appreciate my joke?
jennie-jennie Posted November 20, 2010 Posted November 20, 2010 I fully agree with this. I can't stand when cheaters act like it was something that happened to them rather than something they themselves did. Research shows that if renewed contact is made with a past love, within 30 days the relationship will be back at the same level as it left off, within 60 days there will be physical love. The force of rekindled love is strong. If you allow yourself that first renewed contact, control is lost. It just happens.
Lauriebell82 Posted November 20, 2010 Posted November 20, 2010 Research shows that if renewed contact is made with a past love, within 30 days the relationship will be back at the same level as it left off, within 60 days there will be physical love. The force of rekindled love is strong. If you allow yourself that first renewed contact, control is lost. It just happens. This proves how addictive A's really are. You can't control yourself.
Fight4Me Posted November 20, 2010 Posted November 20, 2010 Research shows that if renewed contact is made with a past love, within 30 days the relationship will be back at the same level as it left off, within 60 days there will be physical love. I guess that explains why history ended up repeating itself. He dumped her for me again 20+ years after he did it the first time. The force of rekindled love is strong. If you allow yourself that first renewed contact, control is lost. It just happens.Didn't Yoda say that to Luke Skywalker during his Jedi training? No, wait... that was Obi Wan to Anakin.
freestyle Posted November 20, 2010 Posted November 20, 2010 "No one knows him/her like I do" good one!! I'd give that four stars on the puke-ability list.... (or should that be four barf-bags??)
Woggle Posted November 20, 2010 Posted November 20, 2010 Research shows that if renewed contact is made with a past love, within 30 days the relationship will be back at the same level as it left off, within 60 days there will be physical love. The force of rekindled love is strong. If you allow yourself that first renewed contact, control is lost. It just happens. If a person has no control over their actions they need help. That is not normal. You could lock me up in a room with my ex for six months and I would not be attracted to her. I would build a pillow fort I could hide in and listen to my iPod.
jennie-jennie Posted November 20, 2010 Posted November 20, 2010 (edited) This proves how addictive A's really are. You can't control yourself. It proves how addictive falling in love is. The chemicals in your brain really make you feel good. The point I was trying to make about rekindled love is that you already are in love when you reconnect. You start up exactly where you left off all that time ago. The criteria being that your love must have been interrupted by forces without your control. Edited November 20, 2010 by jennie-jennie
jennie-jennie Posted November 20, 2010 Posted November 20, 2010 I guess that explains why history ended up repeating itself. He dumped her for me again 20+ years after he did it the first time. No, that does not seem to fit the usual pattern for rekindled love. If he chose to end the relationship with her in the past, then it is actually surprising that he wasn't already done with her for good.
jennie-jennie Posted November 20, 2010 Posted November 20, 2010 "No one knows him/her like I do" True, because MM often open up to their OW in a way they have never done to their wives.
jennie-jennie Posted November 20, 2010 Posted November 20, 2010 If a person has no control over their actions they need help. That is not normal. You could lock me up in a room with my ex for six months and I would not be attracted to her. I would build a pillow fort I could hide in and listen to my iPod. Because you were already done with that relationship. That doesn't count as rekindled love. It is the abruption caused by forces not of your own doing which makes for the rekindled love.
NoLongerSad Posted November 20, 2010 Posted November 20, 2010 I guess that explains why history ended up repeating itself. He dumped her for me again 20+ years after he did it the first time. Wow that means you "won." Finally. I'm sure it was worth the 20 year wait. Didn't Yoda say that to Luke Skywalker during his Jedi training? No, wait... that was Obi Wan to Anakin. "Beware the power of the dark side."
bentnotbroken Posted November 20, 2010 Posted November 20, 2010 Research shows that if renewed contact is made with a past love, within 30 days the relationship will be back at the same level as it left off, within 60 days there will be physical love. The force of rekindled love is strong. If you allow yourself that first renewed contact, control is lost. It just happens. What research? Who did the studies and have the results been replicated? I am interested in this.
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