juand Posted November 19, 2010 Posted November 19, 2010 My gf broke up with me about 2 months ago. Three weeks ago i decided to move on and get along with my life. I went away for two weeks and when i came back i noticed a call from her crying and asking for me to call her. I called her and she didnt answer. Then she sent me a text the next day saying she was sleeping and that she will call me later after work. I am not sure what to expect from this call, i do not know how to react to anything she would say wether it is positive or nagative about us. What do you think her reason for calling me was and what should i do?
circa66 Posted November 19, 2010 Posted November 19, 2010 No one knows and probably she doesn't either. People like that second guess their decisions or want a sympathetic ear or feel guilty or who the hell knows. I remember what an old wise divorce lawyer once told me. They may come back, some do but they only come back for a day, a week, a month, a year and they are gone again. They just need to make sure. Sure there are exceptions. I am a month and a week removed from losing the love of my life. It's not easy at all. she has not reached out to me but I would be surprised if she did not in the next few months or years. I wont be waiting. As for you I would not return her call nor try again. She has to make an effort not a once only call.
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