flashy Posted November 19, 2010 Posted November 19, 2010 (edited) met a girl a couple a monts ago. We've hung out a couple times a week the past month with friends and a few times without. We really enjoy eachothers company and she doesn't seem to date other guys. Anyways I tried to kiss her a couple times over the weekend which she wasnt ready for. Yet she still called after awkward moments like that to pick me up and go to dinner. Which was a great time yet she still wasnt ready to kiss me yet. Eskimo kisses, hugs etc. instead. Texted her once a couple days later she replied with enthusiasm. Ran into her at the library yesterday, we talked but I got butterflies in my stomach towards the end of the conversation because I just don't know what's going through her head. Is she the kind of girl that needs to be pursued with confidence? I've been in that situation before. Or am I waisting my time? I'd like to give more details, ask me if you need more. I wrote a longer version of this and noone seemed to reply. Edited November 19, 2010 by flashy
810 Posted November 19, 2010 Posted November 19, 2010 i read both of your previous threads it looks like she likes you. however, it seems like you take a lot of things personally. you need to chill a bit and not being jealous or waiting around to do things with her. if you can do that then i say go ahead and pursue her if you want. good luck.
Author flashy Posted November 19, 2010 Author Posted November 19, 2010 Thanks 810 I needed to hear that. Hope your not blowing sunshine. I can handle constructive critisism. I know I'm thinking too much. Have to admit it sucks feeling this way but good at the same time because I feel like a teenager again. I would just feel dumb if if there's something there for me and not her. perhaps I'm being needy? lol Anyway open to more feedback
Pink_orchid Posted November 19, 2010 Posted November 19, 2010 Perhaps she likes you as a person but is not sure if the attraction is there - I am not saying you're not attractive my friend I don't even know you, I just mean that can be the case sometimes, either 'IT' is there or it isn't for me, it doesn't mean that the other person is not good looking. But sometimes I've been on a date and had a nice time but not wanted to kiss the guy, whereas there have been others where I can't wait LOL. Don't give up though, if she's responded enthusiastically to things you've said, I think there's hope! She obviously likes you and sometimes things grow from that. Ask her out again.
Author flashy Posted November 19, 2010 Author Posted November 19, 2010 (edited) Yeah orchid makes sense I'm not in the best shape of my life but I still look good. Perhaps I should shred up again. Edited November 19, 2010 by flashy
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